Any mommies in a current relationship and living with boyfriend? I wanna ask a question

I by nature clean but if it goes undone, my bf has OCD and will do it. (I know he'd rather not lol) I now have to ask him to clean the bathroom since I'm pregnant. Put it this way...he does clean. But not to my standards lmao 😂. But he's always tidying up! So that helps I guess.

Yes I boss him around... we’ve been together almost 10 years now the first few were rocky he didn’t do shit, I realized he’s used to his mom doing everything for him and he honestly didn’t think he needed to do shit. So I started making him do stuff and telling him what to do, if I leave him to figure it out on his own he won’t do a damn thing.

Before we had our son that’s how it was too. I was working 2 jobs and going to school and he had no job. Never did anything at all. No laundry. Didn’t take the dog he got out . No cleaning .He got an amazing job at fedex and we started to conceive again. We had a miscarriage prior . I got put on bed rest and had to stop working at 4 months and from then on he helped around the house doing anything and I’m a Sahm now . But on the weekends , he cooks and helps with cleaning . He works overnights so during the week I dont ask him to do anything . He spends whatever time he’s not sleeping playing with our son on the weekdays . But I used to have to ask. And then he started doing on his own. He should be making sure the house is spotless when you get home girl .

@mama.kay, @lottydotty, @miaheka, ^^^^

Ok do any of you tell your boyfriend what to do in the house like cleaning up etc. ?

🙋🏻‍♀️ right here.

🙋

Yes mamas?