I just found out about the woman dating my unborn childs father. I pulled up an article on WMUR about a child abuse case she pleaded guilty on. The 3 month old child was taken to the ER and had a recent skull fracture, fracture to both knees and feet, several broken ribs and based on the healing time it was believed by the doctor the broken ribs happened 4 to 6 weeks BEFORE the child was brought to the ER. The injuries were so bad the child was taken by helicopter to another hospital. This happened in 2012 but I am sick over the thought of this woman being around my baby. The father of my baby doesnt think she is a bad person ( which is why he is with her ) and plans on having her around our baby whenever he has him. Keep in mind I have made a previous post about him that had me nervous already. I dont know what to do or what I can do but I do not think I am in the wrong for feeling this way. PLEASE, I need help and advise asap.
Um no is he fucking stupid?? As sad is this sounds keep the baby from going with him he’s should be allowed to see baby at your place or with you around if he has a problem with it tell him take u to court pull this out I promise you no judge will let that happen all he’s doing is ruining him self. And to be honest I would never trust him again because who knows if he would bring her around without u knowing he obviously has poor choices 🤦🏻♀️omg this blows my mind to be completely fucking honest in my opinion idc dry me if u want but I’d say baby isn’t his and leave this is not father material he knows this women did this to her OWN baby and is ok with his around her he’s dumber than she is 😩
@serenaj6, girl he’s lucky I’m not baby mama 😂😂 in my opinion he would be putting his baby in danger I would not LET anyone around my child with this background! Or anyone that thinks that is ok a newborn doesn’t just get fractures they don’t play jump around fall off things like older kids babies stay laying down and there’s fractures? He’s dumb he shouldn’t be allowed to have children either. Not only that but they were healing she didn’t even take baby when it happen try to cover it up idk the whole story to it weather someone was watching that baby or if a older sibling was around but again no think if ur baby goes with them for a weekend come Sunday you will probably be taking ur child to er for a check up cause who knows nobody needs to live like that ur the mama you can protect your child
Talk to a lawyer ASAP. She has a child abuse case on her record so that will definitely help. But I would absolutely not allow her around your child, and if he thinks okay, then he doesn’t need to be around the baby either.
I would absolutely NOT be putting his name on the birth certificate if he chooses a woman over the safety of his baby. And if he wants to push it- go to court, bring the evidence of her abuse (print papers from the site) and request her not be allowed around your baby when he is around the baby. Point blank perioddd. Bc if she covered for the baby's dad then thats make her a shit mother even if that is true and she didnt do it. Fucking horrible. If he wants to play dirty on you and let a conviced child abuser around an innocent baby, all bets are off. I KNOW some states will look at the record and tell him shes not allowed to be around your baby at your request. My husband's ex tried that with my stepdaughter (who was 7 at the time) being around me bc she didnt want us together and starting a family, her problem was she had no grounds to stand on in court bc I'm not a child abuser and have no record. You have proof of her being a child abuser, protect your baby, girl.
DO NOT allow your baby around that woman, this may be some shitty advice but it’s my opinion I would keep the child away if he can’t abide by your rules just to ensure your child is safe