This is for all my Step moms out there . What would you do ?

If they're married that's her kid too in my opinion. Unless someone told me to treat them differently there's no reason to. I wouldn't be ok with him treating any kid of his like that and I would personally make sure not to add any more stress to the girl. If he isn't going to step up she should. She's a child that cannot help or change her situation and shouldn't be punished for him sounding like a a**

Nacho mode? You've got to be kidding me. That step daughter is a bonus and should be treated no different. This is wrong all the way around. And I want to punch step mom in the face because even tho that's "nacho" kid ,shes still a child with feelings and emotions and will grow up to resent both of them. Of course shes been reclusive. Shes being ignored. Smh

I believe the "nacho mode" pos SM should begin starting a relationship with the SD. She lives with them full time and is being ignored by both of them. That's tragic. Daddy needs to step the fuck up because somehow he got his child full time. if mom died rip to her and all the more reason for both of those people to not be pos.

She stays in her room because she most likely feels like an outcast. Her step mom isn't doing anything with her and her daddy isn't doing anything either. That can severely impacted her health. They all need to step up, blood or not blood. That is your child now. Knew from start there was another kid, didn't want a step kid? Should have walked the fuck away at the beginning.