@gion.92 and omg the deadbeat moms so too smh. Can't forget about them right. We don't hold people like them accountable in a serious way so of course they feel they have the right smh.

And that's the thing. He told me he wasn't ready, yet still coming around trying to do "family" things of course wanting sex, but leaves afterward. It's deep, I won't get into detail cuz it's honestly embarrassing. But the best thing to do is keep him away from me until he can man up or tell me what he want out of this. I just dont feel in my heart he won't stay away, esp since this is his 1st daughter. All he keep saying is "I dont want another man around my child." Well sir if we not together you damn right she's gonna be around another man I'm not being single to save your feelings. Men are selfish af

@gion.92 Girl is your BD and my BD related? Because that's how my situation is with him and I'm like dude man up or walk away and be with someone who you can relate more too. Dudes crack me up with their ego and saying they don't want another dude around. well then get on your shxt so this won't be reality o tr otherwise like you said I'm not saving your feelings even tho you're hurting mine.

Thank you❤you're right, there is someone who will love me & my kids unconditionally. In due time I guess🙏

It's alot going on but I won't put it on here being alot of moms are judgemental and I always say you cant truly understand a person til you go through the same thing. My situation is just upsetting in itself and I've been dealing with it for too long. I just tried taking a mini ride to get some fresh air, and I'm just bursting out crying like why can't I just shake this shit if I know it isn't healthy😭

I pray it gets better for us all. I know for me this is so hard

Shit is hard. Emotions everywhere, crying..I hate this

@gion.92, I so understand. My boyfriend (who’s now my ex) relapsed around Thanksgiving and since then he hasn’t been around or cared or asked about the baby. Not even once. Then came to my apartment, broke in, and stole $460 from me that I had saving up for the baby. The amount of hurt and struggle I’ve been going through is insane. I’m already a single mom with my first, and now again with my second. I feel so ashamed but, one day we will find a man who will pick up our shattered pieces and love our kids.

I'm so sorry!! I also feel embarrassed, this is our 2nd child together his 1st daughter & he's setting this type of example. Shit that gets me is they really don't care about the kids. We will be just fine though