My mom is SO against me working PART time but won’t even bother watching my son lmaooo. She thinks my responsibility’s are being at home, being a wife, cooking. Cleaning, taking care of my son which yeah ok but i don’t see ANYTHING wrong with me working and helping my hubby out. We just got a new home. My MIL is literally down the street and she’s going to watch our son!!! I’m so tired of my mom being so negative.
Omg. 🤦🏻♀️ thankfully my MIL will be watching my son while i work part time lol
Hell. I work more hours than my bf does. It doesn’t matter who makes the money. It matters that there’s being money brought in to take care of things.
Exactly! We just got a new home. Things deff need to be bought lol
@angelina_cxoxo, you guys gotta do. What you gotta do. Unfortunately most working wages today aren’t enough to allow a stay at home parent. My sister is a stay at home mom. Her husband works 4 jobs. And they are still behind on just about everything.
Just trust your inner judgment, logically you guys have to pay your bills and it doesn’t make you a bad mom to work?!? My mom was pretty bad about this for awhile and it only stopped when I stood up for myself
@angelina_cxoxo, do you girl let those comments fly over your head and miss your ears (I know I know, easier said than done right???)
@missjaimelee, i was telling my hubby i don’t even have to explain to anybody!!! Long as my hubby & I think it’s ok then that’s all that should matter!
@angelina_cxoxo, exactly you really don’t that’s yalls baby not hers!!!
So someone contacted me waiting me to watch her son four days a week for $150/wk. I had to tell her that even if someone worked for $10/hr it only pays for a day and a half in my opinion?
I mean maybe I’d do it for $300? But the $150 I just can’t see if being worth it to me
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I really don't understand the judgment between being a working mom or a stay at home mom. If you need to work, work. If not, don't. No need to degrade other women for doing the opposite of you. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
What are thoughts on being a stay at home mom ? Any stay at home moms on here I want to stay home with my son for the first year. 👶🏼🏠
Me and my hubby are trying to decided which is a better option. Me working full time and our kids in daycare(super expensive) or me being a stay at mom first and maybe working pt a couple day so I have some extras money. Can anyone tell their experience whether it be a working mom or a stay at home mom.
my mil thinks I should be working but won’t watch my son because supposedly me being home taking care of my son isn’t enough but watching him isn’t her responsibility like what 🤦🏽♀️🙄