Hey moms question when you on accident get mad your child like saying or trying to show her that the pizza wasn't hot…

Umm... take her headphones off to tell her what you need to tell her without yelling? It’s common sense. Why was she eating while watching her shows? Entertainment and meal times should be separate. This whole situation could’ve been avoided with a bit more common sense in your parenting.

You cannot get mad by accident. You are 100% in control of your actions. Taking off the headphone while at the table or having a conversation will completely eliminate the need for yelling. No one needs “their shows” during family dinner.

If you and your husband disagree on how things should be handled with the children, that is a private manner, and should be discussed away from the children. Undermining each other will only teach them that they can undermine you.

With all due respect, you all need to get your ish together. Be together as a family while you're eating and take the headphones off. The show can wait and it will solve yelling at each other. You and your husband should talk as adults in private. And lastly, stop acting like a child when you mil says things about your kids. YOU are the parent, acting like a spoiled teenager only shows them that they can act the same way.

How do you get mad on accident?

And I would probably reevaluate my behavior since my SO felt it necessary to bring my actions to my attention.

To watch her shows

I’m not even sure I understand this.

First off why does she have headphones on at the dinner table?

She had headphones on so you were yelling telling her it wasn’t hot?

Y’all need to grow up. You’re the parents, not the children. If you’re disagreeing about the treatment of your children, you speak about it in private, not angrily in front of your children. They should never have to see that. I’m sure you’re not playing favorites. They’re different ages with different expectations on how to act. Good luck! I hope it all works out. ☺️