I just had my first born child and I didn’t feel connected connected to him until he was born but I still read to him every single day when he was in the womb and sang to him but it just wasn’t the same for me until he was actually here
@mom2les, @mombie, @chasha2017, I’m having mixed emotions.. she was not planned. I honestly didn’t want anymore kids for another few years. I try and connect with her but it’s been hard. My pastor told me god has plans for the baby and not to feel this way but it’s like really hard not to
I am the same way. Unplanned pregnancy and I basically don’t even acknowledge that I’m pregnant half the time. I have to remind myself sometimes so I don’t do something I’m not supposed to. I’m hoping it changes once I have the baby.
Yes with my last because she was not planned and i was not ready and to be honest i really did not want her or to be pregnant. I thought about adoption a lot and felt bad that i didn't feel connected at all in till i had her and that all changed.
I felt that way in both my pregnancies. With my son, it wasn't until I hit my third trimester. With my girls, it didn't happen until after they were born.
I didn’t really connect with my last baby till I had him I tried to enjoy the pregnancy and connect with him but I just couldn’t but the second he was born it happened just like that
Jaime·
Мама четверых детей
I just had my first born child and I didn’t feel connected connected to him until he was born but I still read to him every single day when he was in the womb and sang to him but it just wasn’t the same for me until he was actually here
Oneisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
@mom2les, @mombie, @chasha2017, I’m having mixed emotions.. she was not planned. I honestly didn’t want anymore kids for another few years. I try and connect with her but it’s been hard. My pastor told me god has plans for the baby and not to feel this way but it’s like really hard not to
Monique Murehead··
Мама троих детей
your welcome
Kirstin··
Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет)
I am the same way. Unplanned pregnancy and I basically don’t even acknowledge that I’m pregnant half the time. I have to remind myself sometimes so I don’t do something I’m not supposed to. I’m hoping it changes once I have the baby.
Oneisha··
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
completely understand that feeling. Sometimes I just hate it!!!!
Monique Murehead·
Мама троих детей
Yes with my last because she was not planned and i was not ready and to be honest i really did not want her or to be pregnant. I thought about adoption a lot and felt bad that i didn't feel connected at all in till i had her and that all changed.
Sha·
Мама троих детей
I felt that way in both my pregnancies. With my son, it wasn't until I hit my third trimester. With my girls, it didn't happen until after they were born.
.·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I didn’t really connect with my last baby till I had him I tried to enjoy the pregnancy and connect with him but I just couldn’t but the second he was born it happened just like that