I just had my first born child and I didn’t feel connected connected to him until he was born but I still read to him every single day when he was in the womb and sang to him but it just wasn’t the same for me until he was actually here

@mom2les, @mombie, @chasha2017, I’m having mixed emotions.. she was not planned. I honestly didn’t want anymore kids for another few years. I try and connect with her but it’s been hard. My pastor told me god has plans for the baby and not to feel this way but it’s like really hard not to

Yes with my last because she was not planned and i was not ready and to be honest i really did not want her or to be pregnant. I thought about adoption a lot and felt bad that i didn't feel connected at all in till i had her and that all changed.

I felt that way in both my pregnancies. With my son, it wasn't until I hit my third trimester. With my girls, it didn't happen until after they were born.

I didn’t really connect with my last baby till I had him I tried to enjoy the pregnancy and connect with him but I just couldn’t but the second he was born it happened just like that