Just bought my daughter some clothes yesterday and now I feel guilty for wanting to do something for…
Just bought my daughter some clothes yesterday and now I feel guilty for wanting to do something for myself 😩
Just bought my daughter some clothes yesterday and now I feel guilty for wanting to do something for myself 😩
Shayla·
I feel the same from time to time. But then I tell myself how would it look if she’s all cute and I’m next to her looking poorly maintained lol. We still exist and we still need time and treats for ourselves for rocking this mommy life ok!!! You do something for yourself. I can’t wait to get back in the nail shop. Haven’t been since I was about 5 or 6 months pregnant with her and IT SHOWS lol. When we feel good, when we are at our best, we can give good out and give our best to our babies and others. You deserve it mommy. It’s ok to have a life outside of your baby.
Shayla··
@prettyjazz98, you shouldn’t. If baby girl has what she needs then it’s ok to take care of self. But I’m right there with you girl. Hair needs to be done as well lol. But once I’m back working again I am going to be sure to take care of myself too. That’s going to put me in a great space and I know I’ll feel like I can do anything once I’m looking and feeling good lol. Our babies will benefit from that, just look at it that way!!
Jazmin Wright ··
@shaylajackson931, your right I need to do something lol have to get my confidence back up I be feeling myself when I have my hair and nails done
Shayla··
right! So do I! We just have to create a balance for taking care of baby, and their needs, and then ours so we won’t feel guilty.
Ashton·
Yes!!! I haven't bought something for myself (besides simple things like food) since my son was born.
Ashton··
@prettyjazz98 it's alot harder when your tight on money.... Then it's your or the baby and how do you put yourself first at that point....
Jazmin Wright ··
exactly!! That’s what makes me feel guilty I feel like I’m a mother before anything and my baby will always come first even if that means mom looks a mess at least my child doesn’t and is well taken care of
Ashton··
that's been my struggle too.
Briana Ramos·
Мама сына-младенца
Yesterday was the first time buying clothes for myself ever since my son was born and it was just one pair of shorts 😭I buy so much for my son but nothing for me the struggle 😂
Jazmin Wright ··
You sound like me lol I could by something as simple as lipgloss and feel guilty