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Idk how much longer I can put up with my bf not liking that I have friends. He’s the one who insisted I get out and see…

Idk how much longer I can put up with my bf not liking that I have friends. He’s the one who insisted I get out and see them, so now that I am, he’s upset. I spent 6 MONTHS trapped in this apartment only seeing him & his family/friends, I deserve this. 😪 idk what to do. It’s even a battle to see my own family. Any time I mention my mom wanting to see me he gets annoyed. Why?! & if I ask him he tries to play it off like he isn’t mad.

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theirmommie

Shantel McKnight

Мама четверых детей

It's only gonna get worse. You have to put your foot down or leave

tipsymermaid

Tipsymermaid

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

This is not a good sign. He gets annoyed when you want to see your own family & friends??

Why did you spend 6 months trapped in his apartment only seeing his family/friends?

devyn.nichol

Devyn

Because up until now I haven’t made effort to see my friends, I’ve been out of a job so I’ve been too embarrassed to make plans

tipsymermaid

Tipsymermaid

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

oh ok. Well I’d just make plans to see your family & friends when you want. You don’t need his permission.

ashleybradford92

Ashley

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

That at least personally sends a huge red flag. Has he been controlling in other aspects as well or just wanting you to stay disconnected from your friends/family?

ashleybradford92

Ashley

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@devyn.nichol just a warning. Sometimes a manipulative personality starts out slowly in a relationship. Be careful or at the very least take charge and tell him. I WILL see my family, I WILL see my friends. He has no more or less of a right than yourself and id make that as clear as possible now.

devyn.nichol

Devyn

I really hope it doesn’t get worse. Thank you

ashleybradford92

Ashley

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

if you ever need to talk feel free to PM. I'll keep you in my thoughts, just make sure to stand firm for yourself. You're a beautiful soon to be mom, you'll need your support group, and he needs to understand that. As much as I love my husband he will never understand quite as easily as a best friend or mother.

cams

Cams

Мама троих детей

Has he always been this controlling ?

devyn.nichol

Devyn

No, only when it comes to seeing other people

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