Idk how much longer I can put up with my bf not liking that I have friends. He’s the one who insisted I get out and see them, so now that I am, he’s upset. I spent 6 MONTHS trapped in this apartment only seeing him & his family/friends, I deserve this. 😪 idk what to do. It’s even a battle to see my own family. Any time I mention my mom wanting to see me he gets annoyed. Why?! & if I ask him he tries to play it off like he isn’t mad.
This is not a good sign. He gets annoyed when you want to see your own family & friends??
Why did you spend 6 months trapped in his apartment only seeing his family/friends?
Because up until now I haven’t made effort to see my friends, I’ve been out of a job so I’ve been too embarrassed to make plans
@devyn.nichol, oh ok. Well I’d just make plans to see your family & friends when you want. You don’t need his permission.
That at least personally sends a huge red flag. Has he been controlling in other aspects as well or just wanting you to stay disconnected from your friends/family?
@devyn.nichol just a warning. Sometimes a manipulative personality starts out slowly in a relationship. Be careful or at the very least take charge and tell him. I WILL see my family, I WILL see my friends. He has no more or less of a right than yourself and id make that as clear as possible now.
@devyn.nichol if you ever need to talk feel free to PM. I'll keep you in my thoughts, just make sure to stand firm for yourself. You're a beautiful soon to be mom, you'll need your support group, and he needs to understand that. As much as I love my husband he will never understand quite as easily as a best friend or mother.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I ...
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
The last time I get to see my baby before he’s born was today, and I didn’t even get to see him. 😩😞😞😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
It's only gonna get worse. You have to put your foot down or leave