I have a question for other moms that work ...
If your partner comes home from work one day and says I need to to get a job to help bring in money ( it’s like okay that’s fine ) then he says you need to drop the kids off and pick them up from school and take them to the doctors when they are sick or etc and find a babysitter before you go to work and u can’t work later then 1 or 2 am bc you have to make sure the kids are at school on time ....... I ask what about you your job is so flexible u do landscaping your boss is an easy going guy he understands completely then he says in a loud voice IT DOESN’T WORK THAT WAY .. YOU MAKE SURE THEY ARE IN SCHOOL
AND AT THE DRS WHEN NEED AND YOU PICK THEM UP AND TAKE THEM TO THE SITTERS BEFORE YOU GO TO WORK .. I told him there no point in me getting a job when our son micheals starts school at 8:30 am and off at 3:30 pm and Xavier starts at 9am and off at 4:00pm he says he don’t care figure it out then walks away... any moms work from home with felxable hrs??
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First off couldn’t be me I would cuss him every name but his own
My hrs are not flexible but my SO are. He does landscaping we work shit out together. He's really being a ass.
@autism_mommy2, no they aren't. YOURS is, please don't lump all men in to the asshole douche category. My husband is a fantastic man. A man who would have NO issue taking HIS child to and from school, the doctor or give him a bath, feed him and will even take off work when he's sick if needed... ANYTHING that ANY parent would and SHOULD do!
HELL NO! He's a fucking IDIOT! PLEASE do not have any more children with an asshat like that. WHY would you deal with this???
Bc I have no place to go and he says If I leave again he will make sure to take me to court and take my kids from me and I won’t ever see my kids again ... that’s why I deal
With it
@autism_mommy2, but you know that's not how it works right? You have to actually be FIT! He's not gonna go to court and bully a judge the way he does you to get his way, I PROMISE you that mama!
@leonardsquared, that’s y I’m gonna get a job to better myself for me and my babies
@sweetsap, I’m gonna tell him that tomorrow on his way out the door 🤣🤣
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
You know you have children when...
You get to work and notice that your pants have smudges of unidentifiable origin from the knee down. ?
If you only live off the government and you not your significant other don’t work you shouldn’t be planning more kids🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Okay seen this post on Facebook and I reposted is saying "it should be your husband first but most women would say the child" two women responded very negatively like "it is your child first smh" and "what is his hands broken he should fix his own plate" but I'm a Christian and in the Bible says your husband comes first then the children no I'm not talking about a boyfriend nothing I'm saying a husband when he gets off work he should be the first one to receive that hotmail he's been at work all...
No, if you are in need of a job due to finances, then he needs to compromises, too. It may be tough for you to get a job with the demands he is putting on you.