How would you explain to your kids that their dad won't be living in the house anymore!? My kids are still young so idk, but they love their dad so much I just don't want to see the boys hurt when I tell them! 😭
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I’m so sorry your going through this hon... how are you doing now . I didn’t see the message till now.
Wait mama what happen? Text me tomorrow? Praying for u and ur babes! ❤️❤️
I am sorry you’re going through this! It will probably be alittle hard for them to understand at first but they will adjust over time. I hope things go smooth for you 💕
Thank you! ❤ I just hate that it came to this but it's really not healthy at all..
@itsmely that means alot.. Thank you! I know I'll be happier, I just don't know how it'll affect the kids and that's what I dont like
I’m soo sorry!!! There strong kids like their mom!!❤️❤️
I’m sorry you’re going through this. Hopefully things will smooth out soon.
I'm so sorry momma. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
I don't think so! Things was good for a while and then lately both of us have just been miserable.. It's not healthy, especially for the kids! I just don't want to deal with it anymore
@mommy_x3 I understand!! Yeah, just talk to them so they can kinda understand.
@lifewithlynnieandwill88 I'm working myself up to having the talk
I’m sorry you’re going through this, i would explain to them that mommy and daddy decided to live in separate places but that he loves them and will continue to see them and talk to them as much as he can.
Thanks! I just hope it goes smoothly when I tell them 😔
@icebergahead @queenmeeks thanks ladies! ❤ it's going to be tough to tell them, but I would rather give them an explanation then him just up and leave and them be confused as to why dad isn't here anymore.. He already left though, so I'll be telling them by myself 😔
You’re doing the right thing mama. I know it hurts like hell and you don’t want to see your babies hurt, but you’re doing right by them by telling them.
@queenmeeks in a way I think they're still too young to understand... But it's got to be done! 🤷🏻 I just know they're going to be looking for him all the time and that's going to kill me 😭
Aw man that’s rough. When my parents split, I was 8. My dad sat me down and just explained to me that while he and my mother loved me immensely, they were no longer in love with one another and had decided to divorce and my mom would be moving out. He allowed me to ask questions, allowed me to cry, and allowed me the space to process it on my own. He reassured me that nothing going on was my fault. So sorry you’re having to go through this.
I am not sure. My parents divorced when I was 7. I remember the confusion and my mother saying nasty things about my dad and that he will be homeless on the street because she did not want him anymore. She was trashing his things and cops got involved in the mess when she threw him out.
I was crying and hurt thinking my dad would freeze and starve to death. That was brutal.
All you can say/do is say he will have a separate home and will be in your life as much as he can so do not worry. We both love you very much. Reassure💗☺️
Okay so who has their kids so close in age I have a few questions????
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Sometimes i wish i was a dad so i can go out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Feeling stuck ...
Any moms here have kids from different dads ...(yes I know who both my kids dads are )
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Wait mama what happen? Text me tomorrow? Praying for u and ur babes! ❤️❤️