I need a nice war of explaining to a very sweet girl I simply cannot drive 3 1/2 hours into another state for her bachelorette party.
I just literally can’t my sciatic nerve would kill me if I drove that long.
Sciatica is a legit thing but even if it wasn’t. I just blah I can’t drink I don’t know these chicks I’ll be a state away from my kid. I ain’t cute anymore. Did i mention I can’t drink?
@joeywiththegoodhair, oh I had it bad last pregnancy. Who wants to go when you can’t drink? Not I. I’m a terrible person. I know damn well I’m not going to attend but I act like it and cancel last minute. This is why I don’t have friends 🤣🤣
@bigmama18, I was gonna try! Forgot about it. Found out it’s this weekend. Finally mapped it. Shit a brick. 🤦🏼♀️😂
I think they’re all younger than me too. I think they’re college girls.
And I’m just like the fat hungry old sober bitch who can’t keep her nipples down. 😕😂
Honesty is the best policy! Just tell her. If she’s angry then she needs to revaluate her life choices.
I’m sure she won’t be she seems so sweet. That’s why I feel so bad. I hope everybody else makes it. She deserves the best!
That's why I'm not going to my pepaws funeral that's 5hrs away one way. I hurt too bad for that drive plus the girls would be terrible.. Maybe just tell her that pregnancy is really kicking your butt and its making your sciatic nerve hurt really bad and you just can't make that long of a drive. Maybe send A gift in the mail?
Yeah I’ll just make the gift really good. Her fiancé has been a really good friend to us but I haven’t been to them.
@joeywiththegoodhair aww pregnancy makes you focus on yourself then on your child. But I don't think that's a bad or selfish thing.
Just say that. “I’m pregnant and with the way my sciatic nerve is acting up there just isn’t a way I could make it with out jeopardizing my health”
It’s true. She doesn’t have kids and doesn’t know how far along (or how not far along) I am 😅😉
"I'm sorry, my sciatic nerve can't handle the drive"
🤷🏽♀️ or is this a trick question? "Yo, my ass hurts sitting for that long"
I think me forgetting her bridal shower and not attending is what is making this hard for me. I feel so guilty.
I don’t know her well I’m friends with her dude
Use your pregnancy as an excuse. I used it all the time. Oh I can’t go I’m super sick. Jk I just don’t want to get dressed.