Sitting here crying my eyes out because my mom put me on A guilt trip about going to the funeral then told me I had to call and tell my dad. I call him and he asked if I needed him to come get me but I still will hurt even worse if he drives me there and I can tell how heartbroken he is about his dad passing in his voice and I feel like I made it worse... 😭😭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Advice??my 6 year old is acting up... I know it might not help but my 6 year old raise his hand at me and call me fat before that he hit me and i say no because you know you cry. I took his tablet away and told him that he needs to stop. that got him more mad and thats when he did it.So i tell him he would stay with me these weekend and not with his dad. I let his dad know and he is not agreeing with my decision. He says he is going to talk to him but its been the 3rd time he talks to him and nothing. That doind that wouldn't help💁 ♀ 🤷 ♀
Some of you guys might remember my post of a few nights ago about dating again. Well the mister called my dad(he has his number due to my car) and asked him if he was ok with us talking & trying things out. 😱 My dad just told me & I'm in shock lmao I didn't even know he was going to call him about me. Wth! Cute & all but it's crazy how much he cares for me! 😍🙈
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Lastnight I was talking to my father in laws girl friend about the situation with my husband. She told his dad about it and he texted rick😒. Well I asked him what he said to his dad and he said "nothing, I didn't want to make you look like a fool for telling me to leave"! Little does he know that his dad agreed with me that I was right to tell him to leave! He said that he appreciates me taking such good care if his son and grandbabies and I'm like a daughter to him and if I ever need him to wAtch the twins to get a nap or shower that he'd always be available to come help. That meant alot to me. But see Rick thinks his dad sided with him. That I was in the wrong. Um no lol his dad ALWAYS sides with me because he doesn't like the way his son is getting. Lazy. And not wanting to help me. He raised rick and his twin brother by himself and knows how hard it is. He gave up everything for his sons and now he's seeing how rick is being and is really upset about it. He said I should NEVER have to beg or even ask his son for help. He should see when I get overwhelmed and just do things for me so it's easier on me.... I really do appreciate his dad and him always trying to give me encouraging words I just wish his son could here those words too..
Heather·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Don't feel bad girl!! You are hurt & it's hard anyway with 2 young children!! I wouldn't have went without my granny to all my grandparents funerals, only because I was pregnant during 2 of them & had Lynnie for the last one I went too. That's a long trip!! Try to just block the negativity out. You know you'd be there if you could.
Lauren🖤··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Thank you. If it were A local funeral I definitely would be there but its hard that far away.
sherry S·
Are they willing to get you ✈️ tickets (your mom) as long as your grandfather knew you loved him is important,, and maybe yrs later you might regret not going but,it’s your choice and you need to feel good for your kids who need you
sherry S·
Never heard of young small children at a funeral either
Lauren🖤··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Exactly.. They will just cause a scene and I'll have to leave after driving 5 hours to get there
sherry S·
I read your post earlier 5 hrs away 1 way and your in pain and would have to be in the car with 2 small toddlers , that isn’t too fair for you or them and nice of your dad to offer to help you with the drive ,maybe then you can lay the chair down and rest ,not sure if you said you had back pain or whatever pain sorry your going thru that ,heating pads work a lot and ice for many pains and strains but,being in a confined space isn’t too comfortable for anyone,Do what’s best for you sweetie,, I don’t see you post your mom offering to help with the kids or drive so her guilt trip is Uncalled for !
Lauren🖤··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
exactly.. When my sister passed I had to watch my 5 year old Niece say goodbye and cry for her mom and it was the most heartbreaking thing I've ever seen. I cry just thinking about it. I don't want to take loud kids where they are trying to grieve and say their goodbyes..
sherry S··
wow so sorry you and your niece have suffered a tremendous loss ,my mom lost both her parents within 3 months of each other and she was just 11yrs old it effected her entire life ,she isn’t mother’s or grandmotherly so I was grateful for an amazing father I don’t blame her but she never got help
Lauren🖤··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I'm sorry to hear that. That must be hard for her and you. Something like that does change you. I just hope my dad doesn't hold it against me for not going
Heather·
Мама четверых детей
That sucks, he should understand how much pain you have been in also and it’s a lot to deal with right now. I’m sorry this is a hard time without the extra
Lauren🖤··
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
Thank you. I think he understands I've just never seen him this upset before