Sitting here crying my eyes out because my mom put me on A guilt trip about going to the funeral…
Sitting here crying my eyes out because my mom put me on A guilt trip about going to the funeral then told me I had to call and tell my dad. I call him and he asked if I needed him to come get me but I still will hurt even worse if he drives me there and I can tell how heartbroken he is about his dad passing in his voice and I feel like I made it worse... 😭😭
Heather·
That sucks, he should understand how much pain you have been in also and it’s a lot to deal with right now. I’m sorry this is a hard time without the extra
Lauren🖤··
Thank you. I think he understands I've just never seen him this upset before
sherry S·
I read your post earlier 5 hrs away 1 way and your in pain and would have to be in the car with 2 small toddlers , that isn’t too fair for you or them and nice of your dad to offer to help you with the drive ,maybe then you can lay the chair down and rest ,not sure if you said you had back pain or whatever pain sorry your going thru that ,heating pads work a lot and ice for many pains and strains but,being in a confined space isn’t too comfortable for anyone,Do what’s best for you sweetie,, I don’t see you post your mom offering to help with the kids or drive so her guilt trip is Uncalled for !
Lauren🖤··
exactly.. When my sister passed I had to watch my 5 year old Niece say goodbye and cry for her mom and it was the most heartbreaking thing I've ever seen. I cry just thinking about it. I don't want to take loud kids where they are trying to grieve and say their goodbyes..
sherry S··
wow so sorry you and your niece have suffered a tremendous loss ,my mom lost both her parents within 3 months of each other and she was just 11yrs old it effected her entire life ,she isn’t mother’s or grandmotherly so I was grateful for an amazing father I don’t blame her but she never got help
Lauren🖤··
I'm sorry to hear that. That must be hard for her and you. Something like that does change you. I just hope my dad doesn't hold it against me for not going
sherry S·
Never heard of young small children at a funeral either
Lauren🖤··
Exactly.. They will just cause a scene and I'll have to leave after driving 5 hours to get there
sherry S·
Are they willing to get you ✈️ tickets (your mom) as long as your grandfather knew you loved him is important,, and maybe yrs later you might regret not going but,it’s your choice and you need to feel good for your kids who need you
Heather·
Don't feel bad girl!! You are hurt & it's hard anyway with 2 young children!! I wouldn't have went without my granny to all my grandparents funerals, only because I was pregnant during 2 of them & had Lynnie for the last one I went too. That's a long trip!! Try to just block the negativity out. You know you'd be there if you could.
Lauren🖤··
Thank you. If it were A local funeral I definitely would be there but its hard that far away.