I was thinking about the trip to Louisiana for my pepaws funeral and with how bad My back is I…
I was thinking about the trip to Louisiana for my pepaws funeral and with how bad My back is I cannot physically make the trip down there alone with both girls. I'd have to take them both out each time I needed to pee and I can barely lift one of them. And if my hubby gets Off its still gonna hurt really bad to ride down there and after 5 hours in a car in car seats the girls are gonna be super cranky and not sit still and be loud so I'm gonna end up missing the service anyways... Does this make me A bad person or selfish to think this? I'd love to be there to support my pepaw and family but I just don't think its going to go well...
Monique Murehead·
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No you have a good reason to not show up you have kids and also hurt. All that matter is you love him and that you wanted to go and thought about try and finding a way and he knows that.
Lauren🖤··
I didn't.. I told her I'm not going to the funeral. She did make me feel like shit for it but I stood my ground..
Monique Murehead··
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that good you stood your ground. I am sorry your going through this right now.
Lauren🖤··
thank you love. Its very hard for me to stand up to my mom.
Shelby·
No because honestly we skipped a funeral this year too it was my husband’s great aunt and his family is close. We did however send a flower spread. And from what you’ve posted about your mom i wouldn’t pay much mind to her especially when she knows how much pain you are in and having both girls and she acts on her own selfish accords, she would have no room to be saying anything. Your pepaw knew you loved him and saw his great grands and made the effort to see him before hand.
Lauren🖤··
Thank you my mom is putting me on a guilt trip already saying that's no reason to not go and that I need to suck it up even though when she hurts she won't do anything.
Monique Murehead·
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@red_carr i also think that when it really matter when he was on hospice and in his last moments you went befor he past and he saw you.
Monique Murehead··
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@red_carr that what he took with him and you get to remember the good. I really think that what matters most because he knew who was there.
Lauren🖤··
that's very true. Thank you so much
Monique Murehead··
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your welcome