Well today we found it that it's more than likely a girl I'm carrying...which is fine
But how will my [then]18 month old handle a new baby if momma is his whole world??? I'm nervous he might attack baby sister for taking mommas time.
My kids are exactly 18 months apart. My son has always been so sweet to his little sister and knew to be careful around her when she was a newborn. Just need to explain to him to be careful around the baby.
Most kids go through the "my mommy" phase for a week or two no matter the gender. As young as he is he'll adapt fast, just encourage bonding, and special time for each.