If a man has put you thru hell and you have hurt him before also and you think he is at least trying…

Yes if it’s worth it and if you can handle it

Part of a relationship is going through the bad times and the good. If he's still trying, he cares.. but the better question would be if you still care or has it reached the point that it's unfixable. Relationships are hard. With that being said, everyone has their breaking point in a relationship and time to call it quits depends on your mental state with the relationship and if it has gone beyond that fixable border. If it has, it's best to walk away so you don't make yourself miserable but if there is a glimmer of hope still for it, i'd try marriage counseling before walking away to see if there is an option to reconnect. ❤ I hope you figure it out whatever you choose. Hugs momma!

Off and on for 6 years known for 11 years same issue every time and I handled that issue but scared old habits will come back but he is trying so hard on the many smaller issues we had

I’d call it quits if y’all both keep hurting each other. Sounds toxic.

If he’s trying I say work with him. It’s when they stop trying that’s the problem

If the both of you still think the other person is worthy then yes.