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Ok so starting off this message I’m in a relationship of 3 years and now we have a daughter She just turned six months and well we aren’t getting alone
I asked his sister to talk to him because I was really upset and I was fed up and tired I wanted to leave because he’s been an ass he’s threatened me with taking my daughter away if I didn’t find a job in a certain time period And I did find a job I’m a licensed cosmetologist and I haven’t gotten my self fully established but I was trying well my bf gave me no choice Friday about Saturday he was gonna work Saturday and because I’m only making lil money that he gets to work because if he stay home we r loosing money well I tried hard to find a sitter and all 5 of my back ups couldn’t do it so I had to text my boss hey sorry I can’t come in and all 5 of my backups can’t watch her and that I’m sorry well he red the message and I got fired 😞 then my bf tells me u need a job like mine saying that i need to find a 9-5 job and that I can’t work Saturday or Friday how the hell can I get my career started like I’m really feeling put down here in any job u start from bottom especially in the beauty industry 🤦🏽♀️
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I get so sad when I hear stories like this because I'm a single mother so the struggle is real!
Well, first of all he is buggin. Not just in the Cosmo world but any job they want to know their potential employees are able to be flexible nowadays unless they ask for a specific time frame to be filled. Seems more like he's trying to make it hard and no support you. I have no clue what state you're in but have you checked to see if your state has daycare assistance? It seems it's time for you to stop depending on family and friends and start acting as though you're a single mom. You need to look out for you right now (and the baby of course) and prepare yourself for anything. Don't let someone dictate how you live. And I'm sorry but taking a job just because isn't going to do anything but make you miserable and y'all are gonna fight more and that's not good for any of you especially that baby. Every state has a little bit of resources. It's time to start checking yours hun. All will be fine. We mommies are stronger than even we know until it comes down to doing what's necessary for our kidos. You got this!🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Oh...I just saw you are in Jersey! If it's anything like New York they have PLENTY of resources! And I'm not saying handicap yourself to them forever but they're there for a reason😉