Relaxing upstairs since my daughter is not home. Next thing I know my room mate is coming into my…
Relaxing upstairs since my daughter is not home. Next thing I know my room mate is coming into my room talking to me. First off I have a detached garage made into an apartment and I rent it out. So why is she always going through my stuff downstairs and coming upstairs into my area. I don't go in her apartment and start walking around and going through her things. I don't know what right she thinks she has. But it's like I don't have any privacy, not even upstairs where all it is is a hallway and mine and my kids rooms. Like come on. I just think that's rude. Then she want to ask me was I in her apartment the other day because it was opened and she thought she closed it up when she left. No, I actually have respect for other people's homes and things. Maybe I'm being a baby about it, but I'm a private person. Let me be and stop going through my cabinets in my house 🤔😲😬😬
ana·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
#Evicted 💅🏼
BakingDaddy ·
Do you not lock your doors? Get a dead bolt.
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
I have a very safe neighborhood. Live here all my life and so no I don't lock my doors. Never have
Front door yes but not back door
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
And j just might have to.
Cams ·
She’s your tenant not your friend, correct? You should draw up a contract that forbids her to enter your part of the property without permission. If she can’t abide by it, then ask her to leave.
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Well she's been living here for about a year now, so doing a contract would be a little weird. And she is kids of like a friend. Grew to be like it. But in a way also I'm trying not to have it crossed to much because I don't want her to think she can be late on rent or not pay it or stuff like that since we weren't friends before she moved in. I'll have my so talk to her because I think I'm just a little to nice. I just don't say stuff, I mean if I catch her in my shit in the cabinets or something I'll say what do you need. You can just ask me and I'll see if I have it. Suddle hints like that. Only the last month or so has she been just walking around my house and upstairs where nothing is by my kids rooms. So I'm not sure if it's because of the friend thing or what
Cams ··
yea, def sounds like a professional relationship has turned into a friendly one, in her mind. Definitely have your SO set some boundaries with her and make sure she understands it’s making you uncomfortable and won’t be tolerated. And I know you say you don’t lock your doors, but you might need to for a while so she gets the hint. It’s really silly you have to go through all of that, though. It seems crazy to me that she thinks she can just go anywhere she pleases. Mind boggling.