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My husband wanted me to start working. So i did. I got a pretty good paying job. He's at home with her while being paid…

My husband wanted me to start working. So i did. I got a pretty good paying job. He's at home with her while being paid to do online studies until daycare kicks in but.. this is torture. He is miserable with the role reversal, and having to care for the baby. I'm miserable with being away from my baby. I freaking miss being a SAHM. I wish he'd understand that. But he "doesn't want a housewife." 8-5 without my little jellybean is the worst form of torture for me as a mom. Does working and being away from your infant ever get easier? I feel like he's not caring for her well and gets fed up too easily, and i feel I'm going to miss out on so many things with her. Does it get easier in time? 😔

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I felt like this when i went back to work when my son was 8 months old, it takes time but it does get easier. Don’t stress yourself out to much. It’ll all be okay.

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