So, My hubby might get mad at me for posting this because he tells me all the time that I’m a good mom but, I’ve been doubting myself as a mom a lot lately and i feel like a crappy mom no matter how hard I try I still have doubts about me doing the best I can as a mom. I just don’t feel like I’m a very good mom sometimes and it makes me feel like crap and like when Lily’s older she’s going to resent me because I failed her as her mom. I just don’t know how to make myself feel better about being the best mom I can be for her. 😔
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Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I feel like this app is useless when literally no moms or moms to be will even give me the time of day and send one message at the very least and try to get to know me when I’m a sweet and kind girl that’s just wants to meet new people that are going through the same as me.How Hard is it to ask for that to happen?cause I really want to know.I just don’t understand.Am I too young or am I not popular on here? it’s something obviously and I don’t know why it is.
Teen Mom
Soooo Amber is a hormonal b***! I feel bad for her boyfriend. She’s not letting him have any say on what’s going on. Oh and she called him a hippie and shat for not wanting to find out the gender. I want to reach through the TV like b**** I’m not a hippie and I don’t know my baby’s gender.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Me and my princess first time getting epidural and I’m numb from legs is this normal i can’t walk good yet
The toddler times are rough. Try to find joy in every day, praise for the smallest thing, and give one too many hugs. The fact that you first of all care- shows me that you are a good mom. We need to write off yesterday and focus on today; not beat ourselves up. Now I still get those thoughts in my head, but what really has helped is changing my narrative- if she’s having a huge tantrum in public or I lost my temper a bit and yelled, instead of me thinking to myself “I’m such a horrible mom, I can’t do anything right, everyone is staring and thinking I’m the worst mom ever” I make myself think “I’m a good mom, take a deep breath, it’s okay, we will get through this” or sometimes I’m thinking “it’s okay it’s okay it’s okay” then when we get to the car or I have a minute I then can clear my head and think of other positives. There are a lot of small things we can do to put the odds in our favor such as: bring a little bag of activities/toys that are only given when going out in public- it will keep it exciting and occupy her. Say what to do instead of what not to do: “sit down please” instead of “don’t stand on the chair”, if she’s having trouble following a basic instruction, give a set of easy ones she can do: touch your nose, turn around, jump up, great job, now close the door (or whatever instruction she has been ignoring), always bring two snacks when going out. And don’t sweat the small stuff, sometimes we need to pick our battles.