Can I say something without judgement?..... obviously with a question like that it'll attract all…
Can I say something without judgement?..... obviously with a question like that it'll attract all the judging people 🤦♀️🤷♀️..
I was a single mom with my son for 2 years. We have a very very special bond, my son holds my heart. Then I had 2 girls , and goodness I love them so much! I found out today that I am expecting a boy, which is great. We didn't have any girls names 😂, it's now balanced 2 boys 2 girls and he's another special soul added to our family. We told our kids today and they were excited. My son started sorting out where everyone would sleep when the baby got here, and he's wanting to name the baby all these names.....
I'm just scared that I won't know how to love another boy. Which sounds so awful, and there is literally no one else I would tell besides random strangers on the internet 😩. I love all my children equally, just differently. How can I do this?
Ashley ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I had the same problem with girls. You're ability to love will just continue to grow. You're going to do fantastic with him.
💕💕💕·
When I had my first daughter, I thought I can never love another child the way I love her and then I got pregnant with baby girl number 2 and went through a small depression about how I cheated my oldest and I asked my mom all the time, “what if I don’t love this one as much as I love her?” And I remember my mom saying, “you will” she was so right! As soon as my younger daughter was put on my chest, I loved her so much! I actually loved her an awful lot while she was in the womb. It’s completely normal to feel that way. My girls are BOTH my whole world!
.·
I feel this oh so much I landed up in depression actually freaking out so bad I wouldn’t love another boy like my first but when you hold your baby for the first time that feeling completely disappears and your in love all over again ❤️
Erica·
I was terrified to get pregnant again because I felt it would be impossible to love another kid the way I do my first. But the further I get I don’t think it will be like that
Allyson Almeda·
I was a single mom with my first for a little while as well, he saved my life countless times and I never would have gotten to where I am now without him. I love him more than anything...when I found out I was pregnant again I felt guilty even though it was planned, I felt like I would betray my first born and I'd lose the amazing bond we had... then I found out we were having another boy and I didn't know how to process it. When he was born, it was a different kind of love... I don't really know how to explain it better than a quote I once read which was something about, your first son will be the love of your life and your second son will show you the true meaning of love...
Ss3mom·
Awe u will find the love for the newest boy!! When I got pregnant with my 2nd I wasn’t very happy about it at first. It wasn’t planned but now that he’s here, has been for 4 years haha, I couldnt imagine our lives without him. He’s crazy and texts my patience every day but man do I love that boy. I will say the love for my children is different because they are so different but it’s the same amount. Does that make sense?
Yo mama·
I understand this. I was a single mom to my son for 6.5 years before my daughter. I was scared I wouldn’t know how to love another child. She can along and I loved her the same but different. Then I got pregnant with my 2nd son. And was scared I would love him as much as the others. Also love him the same but different. I wouldn’t worry too much. To quote my 10 year old “The best thing about having a brother is you’ll always have a best friend” I damn near cried when he told me that and they are 9 years apart.