Has anyone had sex before there 6 week check up ? And did it hurt like really bad for my first baby I had a c section and now for my second I had a vaginal birth so I am super scare 🤭
I did but it wasn’t enjoyable because I was so scared it would hurt I was as stiff as a board not to mention my hormones all over the place so dry af and hubby was scared to hurt me it ended up just being us laughing 😩 highly wouldn’t recommend it 6 weeks felt so long to ya but there are other things you guys could do
I’ll message you lol because I think u would get a laugh of this
8 days ..took it slow but felt mild pms sympyoms for some reason
I waited 6 weeks because their is a gaping wound in your uterus and whether everyone showers or not, precum can still carry bacteria up into the uterus causing serious infection.
@damire3034, omg 😮 u wasn’t scare to get an infection
@chanty1014 no. And when I went for my check up everything was fine. You gotta think women have been doing this since the beginning of time... when there were no doctors. I'm not saying infection isn't possible because I know it is, but we used a condom, we both cleaned down there thoroughly before and after. I mean, I took precautions.
I did after 3 weeks it wasn’t too painful I also had first degree tear while pushing my son out lol. I was fine
Yeah me to I had a first degree tear did u end up getting an infection
@chanty1014, no I just made sure my bf had showered before anything 😂
When I had my son I had a c section so I wasn’t so scare to have sex because I didn’t do vagina and I did it after 4 week it wasn’t bad but I am so scare since I did it vaginal this time
@chanty1014, It was extremely painful for me at 8 weeks postpartum. 😩
@aengs2, oh damn girl I’m sorry did u feel lose down there I’m sorry for the question
@chanty1014, It’s okay! It’s normal for it to hurt I guess. It actually felt tighter. It was like losing my virginity all over again. Now it’s back to normal.
I did, it did hurt but I won’t be doing that again. I’ll be waiting the full 6 weeks this time around, the risk of infections are not worth a few minutes of fun.
@chanty1014, I felt like a virgin again lmao.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

This is NOT happening !!!!!!! I swear I had given up! But I'm 5 days late and I just got my BFP ???
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

I was 23 when I had my first child.
Wait until ur fully healed wait the full 6 weeks..