I have so much on my mind, my relationship is going down the drain, I love this man with all my heart. But I’m sick of crying every night, I’m sick of working two jobs and have him say nothings good enough or have him put me down. I want to be happy, I’m scared to leave, he says sometimes he will sign our daughter over and sometimes he says he will take her from me because I’m not a good mom. He thinks I parent my older children wrong.. I’m scared to be alone..
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Girl I'm going through exact same thing right now as we speak.
@mumtothree, actually sounds like we have more in common too. I have 3 kids, 17, 14 and 2. 12 years between my last two. My husband also doesn’t like the way I parent my older children. Always putting me down for it.
I’m sorry you’re struggling girlfriend. That’s definitely not cool. & I don’t feel he should be bringing the kids into it telling you you’re a bad mom or saying he would sign over his rights because that sounds like he really don’t give a shit about his kid he just wants to hurt YOU.
I went through a terrible break up with my sons father almost 4 years ago and my boyfriend was the one that helped me through everything he was so perfect. And now nothing is the same. I hate being so in love and pretty much knowing the feelings aren’t mutual.. it hurts so much. I’m working two jobs I’m trying to save because I’m scared he’s going to up and leave
@mumtothree, that’s awful. I’m sorry you had to go thru that as well.. breakups are always hard especially if kids are involved because you have to think for them too. But you have to respect & love yourself enough to know you don’t deserve to have to feel neglected & unloved. If he doesn’t want to put in on the relationship at all then maybe it’s time to think about yourself & moving on. I know it hurts but it’s gonna be better in the long run when you find a good relationship that you’re happy in. & when you feel complete again on your own without anyone you’ll be even happier. You never wanna depend on someone for your happiness. That means it’s left up to them to decide if you’re happy or not. If you are happy with YOU then you’ll be happy no matter what. It sucks going thru this all but you’ll be okay💜 you just gotta try to accept what is. Maybe make one last attempt to talk to him about it all & if he really doesn’t seem interested or doesn’t care then there’s your answer on what you should do.
@mumtothree, I’m in the same type relationship. My husband was perfect, a match made in heaven when we met. Nothing is the same now for us either. He sounds like your bf. Nothing is good enough. He puts me down too for things.
I feel so alone, I have one amazing friend that lives an hour away but she can’t always be here. And sometimes I cannot wait to go to work so I don’t have to deal with what he says. My children are my world. I have patented my children almost 100% on my own and maybe they talk back and don’t always listen but I tried my hardest.