Hell no and I have theee best mother she always gets my babies always doing for them they listen to her she’s great with my newborn but through all that I’d say NO NO and NO . If they are leaving the state and they are young one of us has to be there period
If I was in your place I wouldn’t let my child go. Specially out of the country. I saw your last post and I think this is the perfect way of bringing up the boundary conversation with the grandparents (either side). How does dad feel about this? I would have the conversation with dad first just to make sure he will back you up. I would then call the grandparents and start the conversation by say that you appreciate the invitation and that you are grateful for their generosity but at this time you don’t feel comfortable letting your child go out of the country. Remind them that you trust them but at this time you are really close to your due date and you don’t want to be worried or stressing about unnecessary things. If they don’t accept your explanation then you can just say dad and I have discussed this and at this time we decided not to allow him to go.
I wouldn’t do it only because if something happens he wouldn’t know what to do at that young of a age. I would wait till he is older and understands what to do in a emergency
I wouldn’t let my child leave the country without me or her dad at that age. Anything could happen, so I would prefer them to be older so they know how to contact me or police in case of an emergency