What do you do when your own husband is calling you a hoe?!?! 😭😭😭
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Honestly I would reconsider buying a house with him and starting a family with him. Why did he call you a hoe? What was the context or situation that brought it about. You know what they say about the guilty party putting blame on the innocent person. Maybe he is hiding something from you. I would try to have a conversation about what happened. Something doesn't seem right though.
Ouch, I would of explain to him how that made me feel. And it's not coo. And if he really felt that way, why are you here? Respect is everything in a relationship.
I told him to track what I was doing without me knowing. Put hidden cameras up and follow me. Because if he's strong enough to call me a hoe, then he's strong enough to do that. And my husband has called me a hoe, a slut, whore. You name it, he's called me it. 😭💔
He probably wont do it because he doesn't like to show emotion
Well, it would be done for me. If my boyfriend would have showed hesitation to be back to normal him, I would have shown hesitation for our future together and left his ass. However, I see you're married and marriage isn't easy to just leave. Its really in your heart what to do. Just wouldn't want to see it escalate to physical abuse.
If it's a marriage that you want to work, he needs counseling because that's verbal abuse.
@sparkly_unicorn_ my relationship is far from perfect and my boyfriend was verbally abusive at one time. Got him counciling and he's back to the way he used to be for years now. Sometimes they have issues they don't know how to deal with and you're just around so they take it out on you.
Then there are some guys who do it and don't want help or to get better and that's when it would be done.
We live with my dad and are planning on buying his house this year hes moving out in march and we were going to rent it till september
@breewayt, i word just kick him out of my dads house and move on cus i it’s verbal abuse and once it starts it don’t stop
i agree with several posts here.
Sometimes there is something internal that is bothering him/her and because we all weren’t raised the same, because everyone can’t afford the help they need, it lashes out in ways that we may not mean to. It does not make it okay or acceptable by any means bc then it becomes toxic, but that’s a different platform for a different day😉.I have been on both sides both mean with words- I was going through internal battles myself-and had words spoken to me that hurt me on several levels. Counseling is a great start both separate and as a couple. You could try a couples bible study or something similar ( not trying to throw religion on you, but having a faith base/source helps a lot) this is my experience and my journey I am able to share. I hope this helps 🌈✨. I’m here if you wanna chat👍🏾