Rant***
Ok ladies would you be mad if your man kept saying he bought this and that for the baby and says he is working making money but yet you haven't seen any of it? Nothing for baby or money? And would you be mad if he was smoking weed behind your back when you told him no weed because a job and the kids are more important?? Because my man hasn't showed me anything no money no shit for the baby and he said he quit smoking but come to find out he was smoking weed at his dad's friends house tonight. I'm pissed idk how much more I can take I've let him slide so many times and given him chances to get his shit together. I even told him if he doesn't change by the time our son gets here then I'm gone. And then I find out he's getting high tonight... Must be he doesn't want me around anymore because I'm trying to make him grow up and act like a father and an adult.
@madisonpaigewright I have because when he told me he'd take my son from me all I could think was how much he sounded like my daughter's sperm donor and I don't like that at all.
Thank you so much you too! 💜
awww girl, this is kinda what happened with me and my ex/baby's father I left him after telling him to get a job and step the fuck up but I guess he didn't really care about my baby and me so I left and now he wants me to take him back lol but I don't want nothing to do with him cause now I have all my baby's needs without him and his fucked up family (: but your baby needs everything so he either needs to step up or you need to leave him. I am here for any support if you need any!! ❣
@mamabear_of_soon_to_be_02 awww I've been through a lot too with my ex considering he still a lil ass kid that doesn't wanna grow up, he stressed me out throughout my whole pregnancy and it was really the worst toxic relationship I ever been in, thankfully I left him. but you're welcome, I know exactly how you feel and if you feel the need to leave him then do it girl it will be the best for not just you but for your kids too! and if you need comfort or someone to talk to I'm always here! ❣
@eighteenpreggo thank you so much!
Sometimes you just got to show them you serious. Leave then he will either step it up or he’ll step aside. Either way you’ll see if family is important to him or not. You deserve more than that stress
I don't smoke weed. So I guess I will never understand. But I'm not sure why people smoke weed when they're pregnant!
What are your ladies thoughts on having a partner/baby daddy that smokes weed on a daily basis? Definitely not near you or the kids but he does smoke often.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question can u smoke weed while breastfeeding will it get in contact with the baby
So my MIL looked in on my boyfriend's banking account and started charging him up because he sent me money for a new carseat and stroller because the one she got us was crap and because he bought something he needed for school. Saying he spent money on bullshit. Then had the audacity to say, "I'm tired of Jennifer always asking you for shit and always depending on you. She needs to own up to this shit too and has a mom she can ask to buy stuff for her." You don't fucking know shit about anything...
I'm stable I buy everything for my children and my mom helps me because I live at home with her for reasons. He's gonna be at the hospital when I give birth but I don't want him to sign the birth certificate. I'm gonna secretly tell the nurse not to talk about the birth certificate in front of him that way he doesn't sign it.