My boobs are throbbing 😩😩😩 I feel like a failure if I can’t breast feed but this is horrible 😭😭😭
You're only a failure if you choose to not feed your baby anything at all. Breastfeeding can be frustrating especially really early on. All of my pain both with nipples and engorgement went away after about a week but that's my own experience, I don't know what's normal. Either way, don't be hard on yourself over it
I never breastfed my boys... it just wasn't going to work for me and I knew that before they were born. Not all women can do it and it's perfectly fine, doesn't make you any less of a woman and it doesn't make you a failure. They all say "breast is best" but in reality, "fed is best". That's why they make formula.
Don’t ever feel like a failure if you can’t breastfeed. Not everyone can. I couldn’t. I didn’t make milk until my son was 2 weeks old.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Have you tried hand expressing? It’ll relieve some of the pressure. And feeding him will hurt at first but will feel so much better after releasing that milk. Try a hot compress or hot shower as well. I’ve been there. And you’re not a failure. 🙂