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Brandi Bulgin
Brandi Bulgin
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

I feel like no one understands what I'm going through. My parents give me no sympathy for being pregnant. That it's MY…

I feel like no one understands what I'm going through. My parents give me no sympathy for being pregnant. That it's MY fault I got pregnant and every pain I have is my own fault for getting pregnant. I'm so glad to have my fiance's support but most of the time he doesn't understand either. He just nods and says, "You can do this." It makes me cry because he doesn't understand what he's encouraging me to do most of the time. 🤦😫 My parents are so nosey when me and my fiance are around them. It's irritating...

#needtovent #butparentsarenosey

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kaycharwy312

Mrs.Santorno Мама двоих (младенец)

I know what you mean it feels good sometimes for someone to just care about how you feel !

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

Thank you!

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babydan

Jocelyn Мама сына-младенца

,I relate so bad

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (4 года)

Do you live with them? If you don't just simply don't vent to them.

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

I do because of our financial situation

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (4 года)

@nervous_mama I see they probably aren't sympathetic because you and your fiance are living with them and bringing another child into the world. They're probably frustrated. Ignore their comments and just save as much as you can so you can move out and not listen to their negative comments anymore

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

@massgirl I'm trying to. It's just hard when they treat me like a helpless child always telling me what to do and mistreating my fiance

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

I don't want sympathy. It just surprises me they don't even try to relate to my pain or anything I go through. I'm better off not telling them anything at this point. Yeah, maybe I mean compassion or...?

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massgirl

MandyМама дочки (4 года)

@nervous_mama do you and your fiance help with the mortgage or the light bill??? If not then they are certainly taking care of you.

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

@massgirl We pay a portion of rent, light and our part of the water bill. We even bring in groceries. Both me and my fiance work and I'm s full time student

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nervous_mama

Brandi BulginМама сына-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)

@doubleksmommy we both work and I go to college full time

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doubleksmommy

Amber☄Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)

Sympathy? Well its not their fault you got pregnant lol. Maybe sympathy isnt the correct word to be used. And men will never understand what its like to be preggo and what we/our bodies go thru. Mines was like that in tbe beginning.

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ek_

The EK 💁🏼‍♀️Мама сына (2 года)

Why do you need sympathy for being pregnant?

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