If you was in my shoes fighting for your son to see his dad which next step would you take A)try…

B..

B. I think going to someone apartment with out permission may cause problems..

B

Thank you guys

That’s why I wanted to ask for opinion before I decided but I think you guys are right especially since he’s ignoring me if I went there only god knows what could happen and I got to be here for my kids

B.

B. But, does his dad not want to be apart of his life??

Honestly he if doesn’t want to see him , then that’s his loss , you can force him , even with court papers he can not not show up to visitation .

If you made him get a dna test, maybe he would realize it is his son and want to be his dad. But, if he doesn't want to be in your son's life after that, I would ask him to sign over his rights.

I never pushed to hard for my son's dad to be in his life. My thing was you knew I was pregnant your knew I had him and still nothing.

But B and getting the court involed will be the best but you need to be ready to share your time or be ready for him to give up Rights and your right back to where you are now. Wanting a father for your baby

Neither I’m not going to force the situation at the end of the day his conscious will bother him not yours

Don’t push it

I’m pushing it because I want my son to know his dad , to have his dad in his life and I do believe his dad is doing this because there hasn’t been a dna test yet and I won’t stop until he shows even after the dna and court that he doesn’t want nothing to do with him meaning if he doesn’t show up to visitation

🙋‍♀️ going through this with my 3yo. I just got him with child support papers not even 6 months ago. I was tired of fighting for him to watch his child. If he doesn't want to see his son, he won't. Custody papers don't guarantee that he will actually watch his child, and a child knows when they are not wanted in a place.