I am completely devastated. I rarely get to do anything for myself, and I’ve been feeling so insecure and like I don’t do much with myself anymore. For two months I’ve had the stuff to dye my hair silver. Anyone who’s had that hair color or knows about it, knows it takes much more work and supplies than any other color. I’ve been doing my hair for just over 12 hours now, and I feel defeated. I haven’t even completed it. All that’s been done is the bleaching, but I’ve always known how stubborn it’s been when it comes to that. I’ve done my hair more times than I can count, including bleaching it. My hair is white, blonde, orange, and brown all over. I have no way of fixing it at this point, so I’m stuck like this until I can find a ride (thanks to our vehicle no longer cooperating) to Sally’s and asking for a miracle to exchange the rest of the supplies (toners, purple shampoos, etc) for some other color, because lord knows I don’t have the money to fix this mess. What have I done? Someone just give me some positivity right now, please.
Praying that they do... I certainly can’t imagine this being a permanent look, lol. My hair has always been stubborn to take bleach, but never like tonight and it’s been years since I last bleached it. I have no idea what happened. Thank you though, I really appreciate it ❤️ I’ve been doing deep breaths for about half an hour now, lol.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Can I use one of those "hair color" things without bleaching my hair? I want to get my hair brightish purple but I'm not sure... Do these things affect the baby?

Ok I know I've done a few of these but my friend posted this on FB and we're getting some hilarious results. This was my last text:
Most of the time even without the receipt they give store credit! Take a deep breath mama. One step at a time. I'm here if you ever need to talk