📣📣 Venting 📣📣 🥺🤬I’m so upset !!! Not only does your life change once your aboutto have a baby like my life literally went from a crazy young fun out going single lady literally living like a bachelorette no kids no nothing to worry about 20!!! To being with my new fiancé and pregnant . Like don’t eat me wrong I love my fiancé and want our baby... but all that change in less or right under a year got me seriously trippin... Now my fiancé saying I’m about to be a mom I shouldn’t work at this Dutch row a coffee shop I want to so bad like I can’t even do half the things I used to I’ve gotten so depressed so working at this coffee shop literally makes me feel like I’ll be happy or my own person again.. but I’m just trippin rn 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😔😔😔 I just wanna hide and cry I’m so sad . And stressed #13weekspregnant
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And it’ll be that way for a while. Becoming a parent is so much bigger than just a choice. You’re life will never be the same and doing the same stuff won’t make sense anymore.
Seriously though, it gets to be a little much sometimes feel free to message me if you want to talk or vent.
I got you.
@squishybaby, thank you love for your support I definitely probably will message you and right things already aren’t the same it’s crazy !! Uhh but I’ll get thru it just gotta get used to it
Why does your fiancé think being pregnant should stop you from working at a coffee shop? I worked until the end of my second trimester and it made me happy to stay occupied and buy things for my baby. Do what makes you happy, he should understand ❤️
Cus he’d rather have me working at a hospital in the front taking calls or something more money and better shit idk I’m just upset and yeah me too thank you love 🤞🏼
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Do you think it’s safe to drink Red Bull while pregnant? I don’t drink coffee or any other energy drinks. So this would basically be the one && only.
*Update*
Well I never drink energy drinks. Or coffee. We were in the car && my fiancé had a new flavor. I was like I want to try it, take a few big gulps, saw the label && panicked. I’m wasn’t sure before that if I’m not supposed to have any. So I asked a few friends && made a post in here. I was wondering about that’s all ...
Okay ladies so I can no longer drink Coffee or Soda🥤💔😔 I need a moment of silence 😭😭😭 I’m hurt lol
A dead beat job will never be worth the struggle your dream job is worth.
Always do what you love. Teach that baby to never give up their dreams for an easy paycheck.
It’s so easy to get stressed momma and even after the babies here, your life will never go back to the way it was and that weighs so heavy sometimes.
Just remember that being the best mom you can be, is just being a happy one. ♥️
Dad’s won’t ever understand and that’s okay as long as they listen and support us.