Another post inspired me to make this one. How has your sex life changed? Has anyone experienced any…
Another post inspired me to make this one. How has your sex life changed? Has anyone experienced any of these issues? How long before it got better. I'm frustrated about;
1. TMI
Getting aroused has become painful for some reason. Its a really unpleasant aching feeling in the clitoral area.
2. I feel like it's noticeably looser. He denies it but I don't believe him.
3. I feel disconnected from him. Probably more mental than physical.
4. He says no more babies but won't buy condoms, and refuses a vasectomy.
5. Not too concerned about getting pregnant bc for me the hormones from ebf do prevent me from having a cycle but given the way he responded to this pregnancy yea...no
Sorry for the long post. I haven't discussed any of this with anyone. I should.
Sara Andrea Taylor·
1) my clit hurt so bad for about 3 months after i gave birth to my son, did you get an epidural with your son?
2) i feel like mines looser and my hubby denies it too & i dont believe him at all either but ive been doing kegel excersizes after i gave birth to my daughter to help me get my vagina back and help me gain confidence again, im thinking about ordering some kegel excersize balls online to help my vagina faster lol
3) i felt very freakin distant from my hubby but we had sex on valentines day & that made up for how i was feeling so it was more of a phyical disconnection
4) hubby & i both said no more babies right now after our daughter passed away, but he refuses wearing condoms, and i refuse birth control, @divinely_favored
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'm so sorry for your loss. ⚘
Seems we experienced a lot of the same symptoms. I did have an epidural. No stitches. I understand how feeling distant affects the physical relationship too. Normally I'd be trying to fix this but for whatever reason I'm not motivated to do it.
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Are you both 100% about no more babies?
Sara Andrea Taylor·
@divinely_favored idk if you read my question, but did you get an epidural with your son?
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes
Sara Andrea Taylor··
@divinely_favored thank you🙏💕 & hubby and i said no more babies for now 😊, and i got an epidural with my son as well, the pain in your clit is caused from the catherter or however you spell it, the pain should go away on its own but like i said mine didnt go away for 3 months 😬 i was stopping in the stores alot, in public, holding myself down there because id get random shooting pains in my clit, i couldnt help but stop where i was and just hold myself till the pain stopped, it was like contractions in my clit lol thats the best way i can describe that pain
Katy·
Kegal excersize every day.
Jessica-Louise ·
Мама троих детей
1, I’ve never had any problems there so I can’t say a lot about that, did you have stitches or anything?
2) I was very paranoid about feeling looser after my third however he had no complaints and says it’s just as nice. I think it’s because we go through so many dramatic changes.
3) could this be related to number two maybe your paranoid about the changes that it’s stopping you from enjoying it?xx
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
That very well could be it bc it's in my head a lot.
Yogamom·
I wanted to comment on the physical pain because I remember experiencing the same thing. I believe it was from the catheter I got for the epidural. It hurt for about a month or so after I had my daughter. It slowly got better. I hope everything gets better for you soon!
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thank you
KLove·
REPLY TO: @divinely_favored
How has your sex life changed? Has anyone experienced any of these issues? How long before it got better.
1. I have ZERO sexual appetite. Nothing arouses me. We’ve attempted intercourse once since I’ve had her and I really only did for him 😔 I didn’t enjoy any of it.
2. I’m the opposite. Everything hurts. I feel tight and tense & my periods (irregular) cause severe pain/pulling on the scar area
3. I’m just uninterested in sex. It “arouses” me when he actually does something for our daughter. Like I’m more inclined to finding him desirable when he changes her or I see him actually holding her 🤷🏽♀️ but that could 101% just be my experience
4. Mine knows I want more but he also knows I’m having issues with desiring any kind of sex, so he just makes comments about me having to have sex if I want more kids 🤦🏽♀️
5. I’m ready now. I’ve been ready since I had her. I’m just not ready for intercourse...as dumb as that sounds 😔
So there’s another perspective for you
We all have issues girly...just life 👍🏽✨
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Sorry you are going through that. You are right we all have issues. I hope things get better for you as well.