I just have to vent to someone. First of all, i am miserable. I dont understand why all the sudden nothing i say or do for him is just not good enough. Valentines actually sucked for me, of course I've tried to find the good out of it, but I didnt get a card or anything from my husband. I mean I did so much for him that day, but all I heard was that I thought I was here for our firstborn son, and thats what mattered. Okay, dont get me wrong. He is a good dad, but not a good husband. My birthday came and went, also valentines came and went. He did nothing for me, do i sound ungrateful? Im hurt.
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I’m sorry!! That’s not ungrateful at all. I’m the same way.. I don’t need gifts for holidays but I think taking the time to find a card that explains how you feel is the most simple and also rewarding thing that someone can do. Your feelings matter and if he doesn’t play his role as a husband you should consider your options.
No, happened to me 3 times the 3years I was with my ex.
No, you don’t sound ungrateful. You actually sound like you feel unappreciated. I would have a conversation with him and be blunt and honest about how you feel. I swear some guys really can be completely clueless. Let him know exactly what your needs are
I am starting to realize that maybe i just need to deal with it and cope with it the best i can. How did you guys deal with it?