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Do i have the right to be upset with my boyfriend?

Do i have the right to be upset with my boyfriend?

He leaves almost everyday by 8am for work, comes back around 6:30-7pm. He eats dinner, spends around 30-1:30hr of time with kids and then goes to sleep like 9:30-10pm. Right now it was 8:30pm and he was already sleeping. I already feel like im raising my kids on my own and for him his excuse is he is tired. Like im TIRED!!!!!! Im so annoyed by him 😒

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livinglife09

DanielleМама двоих (3 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I think this is how my husband feels sometimes with me even if he doesn't say it. I work full time and I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I try my best to spend time with them but I'm so tired so I couldn't be mad at him for being mad at me..I know I would be upset but I would have to understand and have a little chat to see if there is some way that things can change that's what I would do

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

Weve done that before and it changes for a day or two but then goes back to normal.

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livinglife09

DanielleМама двоих (3 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@kiki221 then I would say you have the right to be upset

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a.mama22

AМама двоих (младенец)

If it happened every day, I might be annoyed. But if it’s every once in a while, then no. Everyone has off days. My husband works his butt off at work and we usually only see him an hour per day (when he’s not traveling). He usually he leaves around 4:30 am and gets home around 8-9 pm. Some days he falls asleep right when he gets home and I don’t hold it against him because life is way too short. I just pick my battles. Especially because he picks up the slack for me when he’s not working and I’m having an off day.

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

Yeahh its literally almost every single day. Its just not fair. Ive never really been the one to be in back of him talking crap but lately it just gets to me. 😕

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c.9000

KМама дочки-младенца

My husband leaves at 3am and not home till 5pm when he is home hes just on his phone im always left watching our daughter i always feel like a single parent

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

Yessss i feel like a single parent too

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lexi.and.auri

lexiМама дочки-младенца

Completely irrelevant and I don't really have an opinion, but your eyebrows in your profile pic are fantastic 💁🏻‍♀️

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

Thanks hun! So are yours💕

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

@dawnrose, i never really get alone time for myself unless my mom helps me with them.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

That would get tiring. I completely understand where your coming from.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Sometimes my husband comes home super tired and goes to bed early or takes a nap right when he gets home. But he leaves home around 6 every morning and gets home between 4-5. Depending of if he stopping at the store for anything. I don’t get upset because on weekends he has the kids most the time and I get me time.

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

I never trip on him either but man im getting annoyed by the same routine everyday.Lucky you! Mine works 7 days a week. And only works 7 hours on sunday. Instead of closing at 6pm he closes at 2pm.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

What’s his job?

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emila221

JMМама двоих (младенец)

We have our own business. Selling beds. He does most deliveries in the morning but 90% of the time during the day he is just sitting down on the computer watching YouTube.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@kiki221, oh shoot. Gotcha!

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