Need advice😭 so haven’t been with my sons father for about 3 months and counting now, he still comes around as much as possible and is a great father. I’ve rekindled with an old boyfriend and plan on being in a relationship with him if we can make it work. My sons father is soooo against it and is making me feel bad for finding someone again. Anyone deal with getting in relationships after your child’s father and how did they go about it? I’m feeling so guilty now but Same time feel like he’s just trying to control my life
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No that’s kind of how we were too. Super abusive and controlling and that’s why I left. And even now that I’ve found someone else he’s trying to tell me I can’t be with him because my son can’t be seeing another guy around...
@skinnymom2145 well then he should have been the right guy then, simple as that but he failed. He failed as a partner and by being controlling and abusive towards you, he failed as a father too because a father is supposed to be a proper role model to their sons
Separate the two now. If you pursue this relationship it is none of his business just like if he found someone else it is none of yours. As long as the people that you two are dating are treating the children correctly there shouldn't be a problem. If you're talking to him about your new relationship stop now; it isn't a healthy habit.
Only reason I let him know is because I wanted him to take my son for the night so we could go out and he freaked. He doesn’t think it’s okay for my son to see another man in his life and I kind of see where he’s coming from but I feel like I shouldn’t not see anyone just because he’d be seeing another face
@skinnymom2145 maybe take it slowly. Find a different babysitter if he won't take him or don't tell him who you're actually going out with. Maybe he doesn't think it's okay to have another man in his life so soon which I agree with but like I said before separate the two. Tell him if he doesn't want to watch your so while you go out that's fine but other than that it is none of his business.
My sons father has me feeling so bad about myself...
so my sons father just posted a picture of his new girlfriend kissing my son. i dont know how to feel about this.
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I feel so honored to have someone say i was their B.B. crush!! It’s my first so I’m feeling pretty darn good about myself right now!! That is all. Needed to get that out there before and if this app closes down!! That’s all carry on hahahaha
If you don't want to be with him then that's the way it is and he will have to deal with it. You have all the right to find someone who makes you happy and it's important for your son to see you as happy because a happy mama is a good mama, if his father wasn't doing that for you then it would have caused more harm than good in the long run. It's none of his business if you move on with someone new especially if you weren't married but even if you were it still doesn't matter. I left my oldest son's father when he was 1 and 8 months later I moved on with someone new and he wasn't happy so he tried to mess things up by calling cps on me but of course there was nothing to make a case on, he was just jealous and now if he tries to call again for any reason and there's nothing to be found again, he can get in trouble for harassment. I'm petty... he was an abusive dick and after 3 years I was done dealing with it and I refused to deal with his controlling bullshit any longer and he knows there are things I can do to make his life miserable so he stays in his place. Of course obviously I'm not saying be like me because my situation is a lot different but my point is, he has no say and you need to let him know that.