Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
Not for a while. He told me a little before 8 that he was gonna give a friend a ride and come right back. He didn't get home until 5 something in the morning. He said he was that friend talking but I know that was a lie.
Don’t think of the worse hopefully he has a good explanation. Maybe make a nice dinner or watch a good movie , do some drawing with the little ones x
Yeah we just got our state tax return and I am thinking of taking my kids to get donuts.
@mommyof.3, Thats aweful. Im sorrry 😭 You’re still so kind for letting him sleep. I would have chucked that cellphone on him and woke his ass up for an explaination.
&’ why is he adding random girls on snapchat 😭🤦🏻♀️
yeah but I know he would be pissed and I don't want to deal with any kind of yelling at 7 in the morning. I'd rather wait until he can tell me without getting mad.
I’d wake his ass up, but then again I don’t put up with lying 🤷♀️ stay strong girl
I would but he's drunk so he won't exactly be able to stay awake to answer my questions.
So the person he said he was with the whole time, he was texting around 1 in the morning. Like why would he need to text him if he is right next to him? Then he texted him at 5 something this morning but he was home by then.
Hell no drunk or not I would wake his ass up.
If my hubby goes out and drinks he is up when we are
@momof3cuties I tried asking him and he could barely say what.
Yeah nope. Not acceptable. Idc if what he was doing was innocent or not, you don’t tell someone when you’ll be home and then go off the grid for 9 more hours, I’d have the damn cops out looking for his ass. He could have been in an accident or something! It’s so inconsiderate. I’m sorry mama.
Does he normally come home at 5am? That is not be cool. Even before I learned about the lying I would be mad about the late night and then expecting to sleep all day. 🤬
good luck with that conversation girl. You are way better than I would be with this situation. Good job keeping calm so your kids don’t have to see a whole fight but I hope you don’t let him walk all over you. ❤️💕
Men are so selfish sometimes 🙄 no matter what he was doing, I’d be pissed that he lied to me! Not cool at all. It breaks so much trust. Hope you stay strong ❤️ it’s an awful feeling from someone you love so much
it wouldn't be the first time. He used to do it all the time a couple years ago. Then we moved it was okay and he would do it every once in a while and I would lock him out, ignore him, show no emotion towards him, and have him make his own food. Idk what in his mind made him do it again but it's really not worth getting worked up in front of my kiddos. I mean I am mad but I'm not going to sit and dwell on it.
If he lied to you, there’s a reason. He didn’t want you knowing. Probably because you wouldn’t approve. When he wakes up, ask him. So what you do lastnight? See if he changes his story at all. To me though, those are all red flags. I’m sorry. Gather your thoughts before talking to him.
We talked and he filled in the blanks. I believe him but I'm hurt because he opened up to strangers more than he ever has to me.
strangers? Of the same sex hopefully. I’m glad he opened up and told you. And didn’t lie. 👏🏼 good for him.
@dawnrose oh it was his friend and that friends girlfriend or wife. Cant remember but I guess she reminded him of his sister who passed away and he was comfortable with them. I'm still upset that he doesn't understand why staying out that late is not okay.
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Yeah nope. Not acceptable. Idc if what he was doing was innocent or not, you don’t tell someone when you’ll be home and then go off the grid for 9 more hours, I’d have the damn cops out looking for his ass. He could have been in an accident or something! It’s so inconsiderate. I’m sorry mama.