Not sure why i'm up but I need to vent. So I am currently 18 weeks preggo and I have a 3 yrd olf…
Not sure why i'm up but I need to vent. So I am currently 18 weeks preggo and I have a 3 yrd olf son. My bf/bd goes out every weekend smh and he's still not home and its almost 5am I am so ready to dump him and just be a single mom to my kids. I am tired of the disrespect to our relationship and arguing over the same stuff. I called him like 3 times and texted and no response smh. I am super mad, irritated, and just over the whole relationship tbh.
Jessica Dawn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
I don’t want to tell you what to do, but you deserve someone better. Not responding after being out so late is so worrying and stressful to you. Your kids are going to grow up thinking that the way he treats you is okay if you continue dating him☹️
JDoll··
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
I agree with you which is why im really debating on leaving him. I can't deal with this no more. He's 28 but goes out like he's 21 still.
Jessica Dawn··
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
girl you deserve better. Don’t waste time on someone who would rather be out doing who knows what than spend time with you
♡Samantha Neal♡·
Мама троих детей
You deserve better hun. He obviously doesn't care :(
Lanie Jay·
He'd come home to the locks changed and his shit outside the door.
ILSDAGF·
Since this happens often, what does he say when he does eventually come home? What do you say? He's only doing what he's allowed to do. I'm not saying "allowed" as if he's a child, but in regards to the level of respect you demand for yourself and the relationship. Idk about where you live, but what stays open that late?
ILSDAGF··
It's definitely time to switch it up around there. He's too comfortable, inconsiderate, and disrespectful. He goes out every freaking weekend!?!?!? Is he working during the week? If so, when is he home long enough to be there for you and your kid? If he's out drinking all night, I'm almost positive that when he returns, he's probably asleep most of the day to sober up. Let me stop here because this post isn't about all of that. I'm sorry you're dealing with that crap, and I hope he returns soon.
JDoll··
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
@mandmmomma1617 Your on point with everything and yes we both work Mon-Fri so we dont get alot of time together and I mainly am with my son smh.
ILSDAGF··
Well, I hope whatever you choose to do makes you happy and less stressed. My tolerance level for b.s. is sooooooooo low. My husband knows better. Men know who they can do certain things to. They prey on women weak areas.
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You deserve better than this love❤️ know your worth!
Mercedes Stoddard·
You need to be the best you for yourself and your babies. If he is causing you to be any less than that he doesn't deserve you. 💕💕
👻·
Not to be dramatic but what if you were trying to reach him due to an emergency with your son, you or your unborn child? He is supposed to be the one you depend on so if can’t be reached why does he hold the position of boyfriend? One time, ok let’s work through this but if it’s happening every weekend then that’s just disrespectful. It’s easier said than done but I would definitely make my stance known to him that you won’t be taking that treatment anymore. If that is being a Single Mom, so be it, you can do it!
JDoll··
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)
Thank you and yes my point exactly, but im at a place where I know it will be hard but I dont mind being single anymore.
Amber☄·
Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)
Not acceptable in the least bit. 5am and still not home...hell no. Only thing open that late is legs. And not to respond... 😠. His shit would be gathered for him and tell him to go back to where he came from tf