Am I the only one who always feels like I’m being criticized by my partner? No matter what he always…

It sucks because I don’t think I ever tried to make him feel the way he makes me feel and to be honest I wouldn’t care if he just finds someone else 🥴😪and I don’t even cry about it anymore I’m more of whatever just irritating

Right? I hear ya, girl. I'm starting to feel the same way as well. Mine seems to be b*tching the most about money especially on what I spend the funds he gives me like earlier he threw the biggest fit about me getting so many pairs of jeans. 🙄

@lttlsgrmm, yea I hate that too I feel you on that I always tell him I want to feel good about myself too🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s funny because they look at all these girls done up online and in real life to but don’t want you to keep up your appearance😪 at least mine use to complain about letting myself go and when I put thought into myself he’s asking whyyyy🙄

I’m sorry they don’t seem to understand that we do it for our selfs not anyone else

Wtf, why is it when we want to do something nice for ourselves and do something that makes us feel good about ourselves they think we are seeing someone else or trying to impress someone else

exactly I just want to feel good

@justmeee You feel that way bc it's 100% true. Of course he'll never admit it bc he doesn't want you to know. He doesn't want you to know you can find someone that treats you right. If you loved a guy would you treat him like that? There is always gonna be guys (and women) with issues that treat women badly, but I assure you that this is not normal, it's definitely not a "joke", it's not okay & there are normal nice guys out there that you deserve. It's verbal abuse & a form of brainwashing. They try to play it off as joking but they aren't. He's going to say that he's just kidding & you need to lighten up so you start to question your own sanity. Do not stay with him mama. You deserve true love & your children deserve to see what a healthy relationship looks like. You don't want them to grow up thinking this is how a guy treats a woman.

This really hits home for me bc my best friend was in a relationship for years with a guy like this & it broke my heart! When he would say things like that to her she would just laugh it off, but I could see the hurt & pain in her eyes! I wanted to cry for her & make her realize it wasn't right! Of course I tried telling her but she wouldn't listen. She got pregnant with him & stayed for way too long until she finally had enough & left him.

I know it's hard to leave, bc well look at me. But i'm working towards it & I won't stop until I can leave him. I'm paying off bills so I can afford to get away. Do what you have to do to be happy. 🤗

That's exactly right, he freaking insecure. My husband is the only man who has done and said this kind of crap to me. My therapist even said he was insecure after the stuff I told her

@onehotmess, more than just @justmeee needed to hear this. That’s a great motivational speech mama 💪🏽💕

reminds me of my daughter’s father. I’m still on the “I think I love him” side of the fence, but I’m also looking over at the “I hate him” portion.

He’s never interested in anything I say unless he’s asking for sex and I tell him to take care of the baby or I need to wash dishes or cut her nails. Then, and only then, he’s quick to assist. Other than him wanting sex, he really doesn’t show that he cares about us.

& When we fight, he doesn’t go out of his way to come into the nursery and kiss her goodnight or bother kissing her goodbye before he goes to work in the mornings. When we fight, it’s like his excuse not to have to deal with her. That’s the “I hate you” side of it 😖