Has anyone ever met their ex’s new girlfriend one on one? I need advice!!
Nope she doesn’t like my ex speaking to me at all or vice versa even though it’s only about our son. He has to go outside to speak to me and delete phone calls and messages even though there only about our son. It’s very odd x
Yes I did and she became a really good friend. We would meet up and go for coffee ❤️❤️ best thing he did was introducing us both xxx
@bluebluesky, I’d like that if she’s going to be in my life and my daughters! What was it like meeting for the first time, what did you talk about? X
It takes couple things to get into your own head, im very opened in life and i like to be as clear as i can, so probably not thinking bad of her or you know, usual ex and new gf stuff, to be put out..
Well it was awkward, as you can imagine, but I was wishing my ex only happiness and I would meet her anyways, so I opened my arms for her.
First things i just talked about how is she where is she from like little about herself, and obviously she knew about me 😂 mens are horrible in keeping stuff quite.
We had some things common even looked alike 🤷♀️ peace by peace we got to know each other, the only thing we never talked about was the guy. And i never shared my personal life at the time and it kind of worked.
You won’t be ready for it i think, but best thing is be positive, non competitive and obviously yourself.
And everything will be okay, xx
It is beautifull thing that you do for your daughter 🥰
@bluebluesky, thank you so much! This has really helped me. I find it difficult to meet new people anyway as have low self esteem, so I’m going to be so nervous meeting a new gf xx
@emily.m, you will be great!! Xx remember you are doing it to be a better person for your little one and of course for yourself 🥰
This is exactly why I need to meet her! Just worried and now I’m over thinking it @theodoresmammy, xx
Yes I've met her and quite honestly she is a vile excuse of a human. She did something to my eldest daughter, I won't say what but it was highly inappropriate.