Well, I don’t even know how to say this, but I’m pregnant again. I just took a test and it is very positive. I took the…

@xo_parkersmommy_xo, I’m trying lol. I feel like I’m in a dream right now. Deep down I always knew I wanted a third child but the further away you get from previous pregnancies, the harder it is to make a decision. I’ve gotten very comfortable over here NOT being pregnant for the last 18 months lol

BREATHE . Deep breathe in & slow breath out💖 everything happens for a reason & obviously there was a reason that pill didn’t work . It’s overwhelming & scary when you didn’t plan for this or expect it but you’re gonna be okay ! You’re gonna make it . Your 18 month old will be over two by the time the baby actually comes so keep that in mind also . You’ve got 9 months to prepare yourself mentally for the baby to be here & once he or she is here, all these feelings will go away💖 & once this baby gets a little bigger, I bet your daughter & him or her is very close because age isn’t too far apart ! You got this mama, hang in there & stay positive💕🥰

@girlmom., thank you!! I just need reassurance right now cause I am spiraling lol. I know I had my doubts even with my last baby but now I can’t imagine her not being around and I love her to death. I was also sad about my oldest not being the only child when my now 18 month was born, and that all worked itself out too. Just in such shock right now!

God does not make mistakes. You got this everything will be OK. The kids will be close in age and grow up very close. They’ll be best friends. As for the morning after pill that doesn’t work all the time if you take it while you’re ovulating. So there’s probably a chance you were ovulating when you took the pill.

@dawnrose, thank you. I suppose it will be nice to have kids so close in age. It took me 6 years last time to decide to go ahead and have another baby, so there’s a big gap between my 2 daughters lol.

Ur going to be just fine momma don't think of it as ur baby's still a baby those two youngest will be best friends it's going to be hard but ur blessed I started ttc went she was one. Try not to stress(ik kts hard) but it's all going to be okay =)

@monkeymomma2, thank you. I know everything works out for the best but it’s so hard to see right now! Lol

@momzillaof3,

I’ve been their. I was on birth control and we used other methods to prevent pregnancy when I got pregnant with my son. It’s a scary thing. My whole pregnancy was so damn depressing. I felt like I had no connection with my baby. Like I didn’t want him. But the second I heard him cry I started bawling overwhelmed in love, I promise you everything WILL be okay. You CAN do this! Just take it one step and one day at a time

@momzillaof3, thank you so much. That’s reassuring 😊

My second was a surprise and I was only 6 months pp. I promise you, it’ll be ok. I had a lot of trouble becoming emotionally invested in my second pregnancy because honestly I never planned on having another (and yes we took methods to prevent it). My husband didn’t want another baby and was kind of upset at first. Over time, I warmed up to it and my husband became thrilled. Now I couldn’t imagine life another way. I truly believe Gods timing is perfect, even if it’s not what I had planned for myself. You’ll do great!! If you need anything feel free to message 💙

@sarahbethk, thank you! I really hope so, cause right now the timing is not seeming so perfect lol

@sarahbethk, and you’re in Winfield? I’m in Plainfield but I work in Lombard 🙂

I’ve heard the morning after pill typically doesn’t harm the baby. Just take a deep breath, everything will be fine! That baby was determined to get here. Just one more baby to love! Congratulations!! Keep your head up :)

@ashipoo1, thank you! I’ve been reading the same thing about the morning after pill. I’m a natural worrier so I won’t be convinced until I have a healthy baby lol