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waitingonbaby2
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Мама сына (4 года)

I miscarried last year before it started I talked to my doctor and mentioned how I didn't feel pregnant. And I thought…

I miscarried last year before it started I talked to my doctor and mentioned how I didn't feel pregnant. And I thought something was wrong. She dismissed me, she said I must be lucky go have no symptoms.... When when I started to miscarriage she gave little to no support.

I got pregnant again and with the same midwife, I had my early ultrasound and she never even looked at my ultrasound. I had a subchorionic hemorrhage and had no idea until I started getting severe cramps.she refused to see me so I went into ER.

I say all this because I don't like this midwife (I now have a doc I love), but midwife's deliver primary at my hospital. Is it appropriate to ask who is delivering when I go in? I don't want this lady touching me, I don't trust her.

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waitingonbaby2

waitingonbaby2Мама сына (4 года)

@momxwifexwitch @dawnrose thanks ladies I am going to bring it up at my next appt and see what they say or when I turn in my pre-intake paperwork at the hospital

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Yes that’s your right.

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xmoonxkissedx

M H K SМама четверых детей

You can do that!!! It should be fine. It's no different than people insisting one particular doctor deliver the baby.

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thebthatdontcare

.Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

You should be able to!

Their was a doctor I hated she was super rude when I found out I was pregnant with my last baby I saw her once and I refused to see her ever again and I told the hospital I refuse to have her I’ll go to a different hospital and they said she will not be in my room

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waitingonbaby2

waitingonbaby2Мама сына (4 года)

That's exactly what I want to say, I don't mind going to another hospital either, but I didn't know if I was being unreasonable. But glad to hear other people have said something .

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thebthatdontcare

.Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@waitingonbaby2, no your not being unreasonable ifs yours and your babies health and safety and you have to feel comfortable

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I don't think she gets it.

I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.