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so cps got an anonymous tip apparently and are conducting an investigation, I have smoked weed here and there and even…

so cps got an anonymous tip apparently and are conducting an investigation, I have smoked weed here and there and even though i can pass a pee test, I fear for the hair test. Has anyone had to take drug test for CPS before?

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nitarose070793

nitaМама дочки (3 года)

I have they took hair from differrnt parts of my head and a pee test. Its not bad. But here someing weed wont get the kids taken awsy

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

It’s weed though? I doubt they will take your kids for weed. That some petty ass shit. Especially if your able to pass a piss test.

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anavalenzuela

Ana Valenzuela Мама троих детей

You should be okay.

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Also let’s say they do a hair test and it’s positive, i could maybe suggest counseling or AA instead of them taking him right to make it seem like I am trying to change? Hoping it doesn’t get to that though :/

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squishymommy1

squishymommy1Многодетная мама (6 детей)

Nope. But we’ve had to deal with CPS before.

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

@squishymommy1, is the rights different in every state?

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squishymommy1

squishymommy1Многодетная мама (6 детей)

@skinnymom2145, no

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

@squishymommy1, message me please

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Thank you ladies, I’m actually tearing up. I need to stay off the internet cause everything I read said otherwise and has had me crying for days 😭 I have a home visit on Tuesday and get off early to make sure my house is in perfect shape. We’ll see how it goes and what they say

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lexitorres9133

AlexiusМама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

Yes love they won’t take your babies. You’re just gonna have to deal with their bs and have to deal with whatever they tell you to do from this point on. Sucks but at least you still have your babies

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Okay this makes me feel better, way I see it is there’s way worse parents out there! My son does daycare 5 days a week and meets milestones of a 3 year old and just turned 2. He’s soo smart and anyone that meets him immediately sees it. I’m such a good mom this is just bs

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brenduhhh

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I’ve dealt with cps over this and they never did a drug test or took my kids! They always said they was never in no harm and I admitted to it just fine. I wouldn’t worry at all and in Florida where it happened to me it’s not legal at all

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xudjdjdhdhhs

xudjdjdhdhhsМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)

You wont get your son taken away. It happened to my sister she gave birth and admitted to smoking her entire pregnancy. My niece was fine but they retested her in 30 days to be certain she quit and the case closed.

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Okay see what state is this in though? Was it just a pee test?

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xudjdjdhdhhs

xudjdjdhdhhsМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет)

@skinnymom2145 New Jersey I think her was blood and pee cuz it was right b4 she gave birth in the hospital.

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stackbarb85

stackbarb85

I haven't ever had to take a drug test and I had CPS called on me every time my son got a new teacher in daycare

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Wtf ok who does that

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stackbarb85

stackbarb85

@skinnymom2145 it was cause he acted out at school it was actually cause he has a leaning disability they ended up kicking him out but they called like 5 times

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sorcha

SorchaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Just read a reddit about this.

According to a text who does these tests, hair tests aren't helpful for marijuana. And blood tests only show use for a week.

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sorcha

SorchaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

*tech not text..... autocorrect 🤨

If you want to get a card or feel it would be helpful do so.

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Yes only legal with a card and am debating on getting one but I’m not sure if that even makes it okay

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madhatter

Madi M.В ожидании первенца

Are you in an illegal state? This is so ridiculous. I'm sorry you're going through this.

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madhatter

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@skinnymom2145 Please please don't beat yourself up. Honestly, it's no worse than alcohol and I personally think drinking is worse. I've watched alcoholism kill a lot of my family. I would recommend getting your card for sure. It's not a bad thing. That's why it's becoming legal in so many places. When it was illegal here still marijuana wasn't what cps was worried about. Once they do a home check and test you even if you fail I'm highly doubting it would ever go as far as you losing your son. They would say they were going to continue testing you and check in every once in a while. Try and relax. Keep drinking and flushing your system. 💜

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

@madhatter, :) you make me feel better. I’m doing my best to get it completely clean and honestly won’t smoke again until I have my card. I can’t risk my love, we’ve never spent a night apart and I’m so scared that they could even temporarily place him with other family members if I’m dirty 😭😭

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madhatter

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@skinnymom2145 That sounds like the best way to go about it. You're doing everything right. It also doesn't sound like you're a daily user. You should pass your test no problem. And like I said, he's not in any danger and he's got a loving mother. As long as the home check goes well and they see that, you'll be okay. I see no reason for them to do that. They have so many other children that are actually in danger to worry about.

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

See I don’t know how the laws in my state work :/ I’ve been told it’s just a pee test but I’ve read that they try hair too and that’s what I’m scared of. My son is so well taken care of I can’t believe a bowl could jeopardize everything

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nitarose070793

nitaМама дочки (3 года)

I have they took hair from differrnt parts of my head and a pee test. Its not bad. But here someing weed wont get the kids taken awsy

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skinnymom2145

Lisa Мама сына (2 года)

Yes I haven’t touched marijuana in at least a week and have ate completely clean and organic foods, nothing but water so I know it will be out of my system for a pee test

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