@girlmom., thank you will for sure message you. We’re going to try to work through it for a couple months if that doesn’t work then I’m done trying.

Never doubt yourself mama . At the end of the day, you’re beautiful & there is someone who has been waiting for you their entire life & will think you’re the most perfect thing he’s ever seen ! He will treat you right & never wanna do anything to disrespect you or risk losing you .

However, don’t feel stupid for wanting things to work .. you love him & that’s nothing to be sorry for or feel stupid for . You didn’t make him do what he did nor did you know he was gonna do it when you fell in love with him . Shit happens . My only advice is if you do decide to stay & work things out, you will have to let the past be the past .. if you don’t think you can forget about it & move forward, then things aren’t gonna work . Every argument you’re gonna throw things back in his face & anytime he’s at work it’s gonna be a thought running thru your mind . So you can only work on it if you know you’re gonna be able to let it go . Which is extremely hard . Trust me, I’ve been there . Rather recently too.. you can always inbox me & we can discuss that further lol . I just don’t want to be putting it on blast on here lol .

Last thing I have to say; how disgusting is that girl though ?! How much dick can you possibly need in your life, like damn !! If that’s not a hoe then idk what is lol .

@n_favors, we’re going to couples counseling Friday. I just feel like everyone in my family and friends are upset that I wanted to try to make it work. I told him I give it a couple months and if nothing has changed then I’m leaving.

So it's up to you rather u want to work it out. Think about wats best 4 u and your child

@neoshas_mama, why is he always angry

@n_favors, he cried all day while at work after telling me he said he saw someone who loves him heart break that day. I just don’t know if I believe him when he says it won’t happen again

@n_favors, yes he does

Does he seem remorseful for it at all

He's always angry

@n_favors, he cheated November 11th I don’t know how he remembers the date but he does.

I'm sorry that u both r goin through this. Is he cheating now r 3 months after y'all met?

@neoshas_mama, I’m so sorry to hear this why won’t he change?

Here’s my story my boyfriend whom I’ve been with almost 4 years is a emt/firefighter who I helped stay up late nights study with him even after our little one was born. I found out after almost 3 months he cheated on with a girl at the station who already had a side piece and fiancé. To make matters worse when he met me he couldn’t get it up but met her once with her side piece there and could get a condom on. Am I stupid for wanting it to work? Is it normal to blame myself wonder what’s wrong with me what I said to make him. Also I could possibly have endometriosis.

Im up sad too Heres my story ...I left my husband this morning because he'll never change. I knew he couldn't sleep if I didn't let him take Neosha over night. This is my first night with out her...I'm so sad I can't stop crying...I'm at my mom's. And I'm dreading to marrow because he will drop her off and then when he gets off work he will take her again...it hurts so bad...why do I love this man so much that I would make myself miserable even after I've tried to leave to make myself happy??? Why does this hurt so much?? I'm so sad so sad...😭😭😭