What do I do ...I get bashed for not being able to work because I dont trust putting my son in…

Do you have any friends or family you trust that can probably watch your son? Maybe you can find a job that you can do at home online.

@alicianoelle yeah I've looked for a few jobs online ...and the only people I trust are my grandmother n mom but they aren't going to be able to watch him..

I work third shift part time and my fiancé watches our daughter

@disco.tits thankyou...I just dont no what else to do he thinks that I want him to take care of me my son n the baby on the way and that's not the case ....I just want my son safe and I dont want him hurt...and he doesnt understand that...

Are you guys struggling or something so it’s an issue?

@dawnrose we are going thru

Alot it's a long story..

@disco.tits yeah I never was able to get that understanding with him ...he always say who's going to take care of them for you and we both there parents we both should take care of them not just him so it makes me look like I'm the bad guy because I love my babies enough for them to not get hurt or mistreated..

I had to work to keep a roof over our head. I had no other choice. My child never got mistreated at daycare. He went there for 2.5 years and loved it. He made so many friends. Our daycare provider was much more trustworthy than friends and family. She became family to us. 😊

And don’t take this he wrong way but your child should be going to school soon , so how different is school from daycare ? I would break the fear now , daycare you can always call and check and even visit , school you can’t do that so much.

I think if you guys are struggling and the extra income is much needed you should consider finding a dependable daycare center for your son to go to. Maybe just part time to start with... all day cares aren’t the same I found a small daycare for my daughter to go to less than 50 kids and she loves it and is perfectly safe. You can even look for a job close to the daycare center you choose and go check up on him during breaks and ect.

Could you possibly get a part time one on a different shift than him so he’s with your LO while you’re working and vise versa?

If you guys are struggling to make ends meet, then I would get a job.

There are very good/respectable day cares out there.

We cant afford daycare, but ny bf and I work opposite shifts so it works out for us.

Maybe try finding a job at a daycare? That way you can always make sure your son is safe and you'll be making extra money for your family.

The good thing is that your son is 3 years old now. So if anything ever went wrong he could most likely voice that to you. If you have a car do doordash. It's food delivery you use an app for it and get paid weekly on Tuesdays. It's easy. And you do it whenever you want to. I got tired of being home all of the time, my husband didn't care if I stayed home or worked, but we can't afford daycare and when I discovered doordash it was a game changer for me. I get out more, I feel like I'm contributing to my household, and get extra money on the side. Weekends are the best time to do it.