So I am actually off on a Friday night and had plans to spend time with my sweet baby girl she will be 3 in March and f for the last year I have been working nights so I don’t put her to bed much this days and so I was going to rent some kid movies and ya cuddle on the couch tonight. Well her dad decided his going to go to his moms tonight and wants me to bring our daughter so he can spend some time with her but will go weeks without checking on her talking to her and it will be 2 weeks tomorrow since his seen her and yesterday made a week since his asked about her and today he didn’t ask how she was just I want to see her. I am pretty sure he talks to his new gf every day and stays with her some and spends time with his kids but can’t even text every other day to see how his only child is doing and his new gf can’t have no more kids. So if things work out for them his daughter will be his only biological child. I can’t help but feel like our daughter comes last in his mind and it shouldn’t be that way. Idk weather I should cancel what I had planned and let her stay at his moms with him or make him bring her back tonight. If I don’t let her go he will say oh I tried to see her but April wouldn’t let me but then again if I let her he will think oh I can spring this on her at the last minute anytime I want. Also he doesn’t help me with her he says oh I will take care of her exspinces when she’s with me and you can when she’s with you but he wanted to claim her on taxes this year
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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Yup def keep her and him let him miss her. Not being selfish but he's fine doing him anyways. My kid wouldn't come last to me so she shouldn't be to him either. Esp when she is his only child.