Who here is dealing with their SO having kids/kid from a past relationship/marriage??. Its hard for me to deal with. I'm…

Mmmkk. I'm sorry right now because I'm going to be honest and the truth might hurt. So I read the post and most of the comments, moved on. But I couldn't get this out of my head. So here we go. First off, I have a step son, who's mother has wronged him more times than we can count. He is 8, half of my world, the other half is his sister.

Now I get the whole shes sick, addicted to what ever, doesn't like you yatta yatta yatta bs. But that doesn't stop you from caring for the other baby. Be the bigger person, when she gives you a nasty look give her a smile. Like I get it she doesn't like you, but guess what, my sons mom doesn't like me and yet I tell him all the time "I'm thankful for her because she gave me you." He comes home saying she said mean things about me, I tell him it's okay, shes just hurt, and trying to hurt me, but I'm still thankful for her.

But to say that you SO likes him more than your baby is also complete bull and you know it. He knows he has two kids, and hes probably trying to make his first born not feel forgotten.

Also it doesn't matter if his son plays with the baby, like my son talks to his sister, but doesn't play either. Hed much rather build something with legos or play with his cars. What do you expect him to do, throw balls or try playing catch with him, like come on hes 3 months old. There's an age difference, and I'm not sure how old he is but let me tell you, little boys are on the move all the time. They dont want to play peekaboo, or look at the monkey. They want to run jump and be a kid.

So I guess what I'm saying is get off your high horse, of well he likes so and so more, and he doesn't play, and she doesn't like me. Because guess what, not everyone is going to like you, would you like it of another woman was mom to you child, probably not. But guess what in her case there is, shell learn to live with it and you have to learn to live with that resentment, but never belittle his mother because she is his mom. Stop belittling you SO because hes taking 5 extra minutes here and there to make his son feel wanted and loved. Again he knows he has to babies. Trust me. He knows. Lastly if you love his son like your own act like it, talk like it, show him because your actions and rhe way you talk is what he sees and hears. Again I'm not sure how old he is, but kids pick up on if they are wanted or not, and bouncing back and forth takes a toll on them. Be the rock and extra hug before he leaves your house and tell him you already miss him before he goes. Because it's how you make him feel is what he'll remember.

Your so out of wack on half of the shit you said. Lol. She doesn't like me and that's that. So your saying that I have to like his mom and she has to like me, honey it doesn't always work that way you dont know the whole situation so stop acting like you do. When did I ever say I didn't care for his other son??? Just stop you sound stupid

Amd when the hell did I say I would give her furry looks back or anything?? She is sick and she needs to get her act together you don't even know what she has done