How often do you just let stuff go in your relationship and in life? How do you choose what's worth…

If it’s something little I’ll let it go but if it’s something that I feel is a big deal or really upsets me then I’ll say something.

If it’s something that’s not going to matter in days, weeks, or months, it’s not worth it

I let things go very often because sometimes it is simply too heavy to hold onto. The weight and stress that comes with harboring negative energy is not worth carrying. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I definitely speak up when it is absolutely necessary and beneficial because I don't want anyone to confuse my silence for approval. However, I do not entertain pettiness nor feed negativity. 🙅🏽‍♀️

Is it’s something minor like my husband didn’t take out the trash like he said he would etc, I just let it go but if it’s something major then I will say something.

Just depends on how big or important it was to me

If it’s something that someone can’t really change, like, something that is inherent to them, ex. the way they talk (not angrily or patronizingly but lots of pauses and “uh’s”), hobbies, or what they like to eat, then I let it go. If it’s something that can be changed, like remembering to put laundry in the basket the right way (no inside-out shirts) or forgetting to think about me and the child when making plans, then I mention it.

Depends on how important it is to me, the long term effects, and if I'm pregnant (I have trouble ignoring things that bug me when I'm pregnant 😣)

Is it worth the fight? Does it really bother you or can you brush it off? Usually if your still thinking about it, it’s worth talking about.

Well to totally be honest I don't know how to let stuff go I really really do want to and I really do try but I just don't know how and I know it drives my wife crazy....lol😔