Struggling to pick a theme for Bellamy’s first birthday in a little over a month and a half because I can’t get over the…

Aghhhhh, know, right?!?!!! It literally feels like I just had him yesterday! 😩 Everyday I look at him (24/7 😂) I see how big he’s gotten and literally cry at how much he’s grown in the past 10 months!!! 😭😭😩😩😩😩😭😭

I want to do something fun and big for him, but I don’t really have many people to invite, you know? I’m not from here so I have no family and friends here, and no offense to Mikey but his family is pretty sucky and couldn’t care less. :/ They’d rather buy a gift and have Mikey pick it up than be around me, and have the nerve to call themselves good grandparents/uncles. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@miaheka, They sound so immature... why would they be okay with missing their grandsons first birthday. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I honestly deal with the same thing though so I get what you mean my MIL is literally the worse person I know. Maybe just the two of you guys can do something fun like go take professional pictures, out for dinner, smash cake.

@alicianoelle, that’s what I said said, but it’s whatever. Less stress for me.🤷🏻‍♀️ We’re going to talk about what to do tonight, and figure out if we wanna go big or keep it small. pictures, smash cake, and dinner is like the last resort kind of thing for us if we decide not to do a party... and maybe bowling or an arcade with his godmothers... yeah, he’ll be one and not remember anything, but doesn’t mean he won’t have fun? 🤷🏻‍♀️🙈

@miaheka, lol same because I don’t have many friends with babies , it’d be mostly family and friends . Aww man . I’m glad you had a little fun , how did he do on the

Flight ?

@momofemersonbliss, At least you have that. I don’t have any friends or family here. I was happy to see Bellamy happy. lol He was great! Our two flights there he slept through take off and landing, and was very playful with the other people on the plane in between! And on our flight home, we boarded at like 3am and the second we got settled in our seat he slept through the entire flight! 🙈🤗 No crying, or fussing with his ears or anything else! He was wonderful!!!😊

@miaheka, where is your family ? that’s great ! We’re supposed to be going to Houston for thanksgiving this year , I’m definitely buying Emerson a seat