I have a unhealthy attachment to my daughter. And I don’t know how to fix it. I know it’s unhealthy.…
I have a unhealthy attachment to my daughter. And I don’t know how to fix it. I know it’s unhealthy. I never want anybody else to have her but me. Weekends evenings. I always want her with me when I’m not working. I don’t get relief when she’s with anybody else. I don’t want “me time” or date nights. People want to see her and keep her and I can’t allow it. I’ll literally set home an cry without her. I have hobbies but I get too depressed to do anything. I just wait until i get her back. I know it’s not normal or healthy. But I don’t know how to let go any.
Chyna·
В ожидании первенца
I think this how I’ll be with my first child but nowadays you have to be this way ! Sooo much stuff going on
Kayla··
Мама дочки (2 года)
She was my first too. An we’ve been through a lot together. I raised her alone. So now that I’m pregnant again I don’t feel as if I’ll be that attached to this baby because I’ll have to always share him with his dad.
Kayla··
Мама дочки (2 года)
@kayla.lawson, @de_michelle28,
AutumnRenea·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I was like this recently with my 7 month old and she is my third child
MassMomma16·
I always have instant regret when I let my girl go with others and don’t even know what to do with myself and the house is so empty feeling an quiet without her BUT I know she’s forming bonds and memories with her grandparents who won’t be here long. Nothing wrong with doing it either way but I totally get it!
Kayla··
Мама дочки (2 года)
I want the ability to let her go places with people. Instead of being so selfish with her. But I don’t know how without feeling terrible and missing her. I can’t enjoy myself if she’s not with me. People judge me for it but they don’t understand.
LopYopNopSopEYop·
I am the same with my 3rd child. I only let her go to my mom's for 2 hrs but even that is a struggle my mom gets so mad because I keep texting her.
Alicia Ferguson·
Мама сына-младенца
Protective mama instincts. That’s all. If something happens to her, you’re responsible. So, I don’t think the attachment is a bad thing. I mean when she’s 16 and you’re still like that, yeah that’s bad! Lol. But she’s a little girl. You’re fine!
.·
I tend to be like this with all my kids. I trusted my dad, but he's not around anymore ... I don't trust anyone else with my kids, besides my husband. We don't have any other family around anymore, even when we did I couldn't leave them very long. They are so small and this world is so evil. I'll protect them as long as I can
R🦖·
Soooo, this is me 🤷🏻♀️ my son is almost 1, and he’s only been out of my reach three times. Twice in the hospital, my mom went with him both times, and then last week! I was super sick and my mom came by and took him to do some errands while I took a spa worthy shower. I don’t think it’s unhealthy. I’ve seen first hands the ugly inthe world, keeping him with me is safer and brings a peace of mind 🤷🏻♀️ like @aliciaanewsome, said, If they’re older and it’s the same thing, then we’d be having some serious issues 😅 ❤️
Dina Isaac ·
I’m like this! So is my husband. My kids are always with me. When I worked I would be Way from my daughter. My since my sons been born. I don’t even let anyone hold him. I get anxiety. I get anxiety going to the store by self without him and him with his dad. I have no idea what I’m going to do when I go back to work. And if I even can go back. I am so scared
Amanda·
This is going to be me when my little guy starts day care and I go back to work